****RANT**** Anyone else got a man that don't help do sh*t at home?? Yeah, he Works BC I've not been able to most of this year, but That's the first time since my last pregnan...

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****RANT**** Anyone else got a man that don't help do sh*t at home??  Yeah,  he Works BC I've not been able to most of this year, but That's the first time since my last pregnancy 5 years ago. I've always worked and done everything else that needs to be done. Im due the 28th of this month, my sister took my daughter with her on vacation for 5 days so I can get my house in order and relax this last week, I've got til tuesday, you think he's lifted a finger to help?? Im beyond fed up... Wth is wrong with these men now days?? 🙄😑😤

Kail · Answer

I have worked half our marriage, I have stayed home whenever I’ve been pregnant and a few weeks after the babies are born. But when we lived back in my SO’s home town and I worked and asked for help. My husband’s step father would call me a lazy pos and say women are in charge of EVERY indoor household duty. Including fixing your husband a plate and bringing it to him. Now they live deep in the south and that’s their own personal opinion. But that’s not how I was raised, and I’m not changing my ways to please my FIL when my SO has no problems with it. My father cooked majority of the meals and helped my mom 50/50 with house work.

Sheena · Answer

Agreed 50/50 should be the way to go always

Tiphanie Reeves · Answer

My husband doesn’t help do really anything either. I’m a SAHM tho, but I still believe he should have to help me with the house to. It’s really irritating, I’m tired all the time getting 2-3 hours of sleep. But I still have to manage doing laundry, dishes, etc. while on his days off he get to lounge around watching tv, playing video games what ever the case my be. While I bend over backwards making him dinner and washing and folding his laundry. It’s exhausting!

Sheena · Answer

Amen

Rose · Answer

Their mothers are to blame, but mines is the same... He was way worse when I meet him...I have to ask him to pick up after himself all the time, he'll have an attitude about doing it but if he doesn't I pile that shit together in his bathroom and he'll end up doing it

Sheena · Answer

I pile all that mess in the corner by his side the bed and don't touch it anymore so he HAS to

Brittney · Answer

Sorry for ranting on your rant. Seems like you understand though😏

Sheena · Answer

I totally understand

Brittney · Answer

The past week his 19 year old has put so much stress on us and has wasted tons of money and now he's enjoying his day out of town on my money while I'm not allowed to ask for anything else

Brittney · Answer

I swear I got the SAME situation except I've had to work 40 hours until last week.  My man doesn't lift a finger in the house and we got two small kids I have from previous and he has a 19 year old. I have my baby tomorrow and he's hanging out on YouTube relaxing while I get everything ready. He complained I wanted to go to laundry mat so I'm fixing to scrub some stuff by hand. My head will be spinning around soon as well🤔

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