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Crystal Emerson
Crystal Emerson
Мама сына (2 года)

Husband's Abuse: Left, Eviction, Protection Order, Advice Needed?

I know I deleted the previous post but just an update, I left my husband's and went to where he can't find me until I can get him evicted from my house.


UPDATE!: For those wondering.

I've been with my spouse a year and married for 2 months. at first he was sweet and caring and made me feel so special. Slowly he started showing me what happens when he gets mad. At first he'd blame the alcohol and promise to quite then after awhile it wasn't the beer effecting him but it was me making him mad. Halloween he actually put his hands on me by choking me for a few seconds, dragging me through the house naked by my hair, and shoving me down on the wood beam to the sectional where I hit my arm on the heater. I tried to tell him to leave and he said he would but first he'd kill my son and burn my house down with me in it. This time he didn't try to change or stop drinking or make any promises to be better, he said I made him mad and crazy and that was it. The next two weeks he constaly called me while he was working, checked my messages and phone records

Anytime I left the house to run errands with the kids in tow he said I was out whoring around. He treats my son like the ugly step child over his two kids and calls him a bitch. Yesterday while he was at work I finally got the courage to leave and report him to the police. I have a long road ahead of me but I'm much happier feeling safe and my son and unborn child safe even if I have to struggle for awhile considering I have no income myself because he refused to let me have a job and would sabatage any interview I got. I know I can get a probono lawyer and file for divorce and an order of protection, get him arrested, get emergency food stamps and utility and child care assistance. Does any ladies that have been through this have any other advice for wise words for me? It would be very much appreciated.

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Комментарии

doubleksmommy

Amber☄

Мама двоих (1 год, 12 лет)

Proud of you, stay strong!

mercstoddard

Mercedes Stoddard

I did not see the last post but from this one I can say, it is wonderful you made the decision you did for yourself. Stay strong in yourself!

cemerson1021

Crystal Emerson

Мама сына (2 года)

I got a new number but he's blowing me up on FB, should I block him?

techie_grrl

L

Мама двоих (младенец)

💯, yes. Block him.

igeerry

Andrea Lone

Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего

What happened? I'm kinda needing some advice on my marriage life too...💔

cemerson1021

Crystal Emerson

Мама сына (2 года)

I just posted an update on what happened

momto3boys

Brooke H

I would keep him added juat in case he will say something that could help you in the divorce. Just don't reply back.

cemerson1021

Crystal Emerson

Мама сына (2 года)

That's what I'm doing currently

momto3boys

Brooke H

it's gonna be hard but your doing what's best for you your son and unborn baby

My inbox is always open

a.mama22

A

Мама двоих (младенец)

So proud of you!

penelope127

Penelope

I’m so glad, and proud of you for getting away from him!

rwalters1981

Rebecca

Save any messages he sent you and block his ass!

massmomma16

MassMomma16

You probably saved your life as well as your sons! Good for you. Definitely save every message and only have conversations through text so you can document and help your case.

kkillgorefamily

Kayleee Killgore

Мама троих детей

Document EVERYTHING! keep yourself and your kids safe. You can do this momma. Look for local resources for women in your situation. Best of luck and prayers!

cemerson1021

Crystal Emerson

Мама сына (2 года)

I am he's already sent me recordings and threatening messages

boys.everywhere

boys.everywhere

Мама двоих (4 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего

So glad you're safe. Please, please don't go back no matter what he says. Your last post didn't mention the abuse of your son and threatening to kill him. Keep that baby safe.

techie_grrl

L

Мама двоих (младенец)

I'm so proud of you for finding the strength and courage to leave him.

mom2311s

BMAMA

Yes document everything! Any writing/recordings is solid proof of his threats in the event he tries to have any rights to your unborn baby.

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Document and take pics of all girl. Im so sorry this happened to you but thankfully you was smart and got out! You can apply for tanf for emergency assistance for needy families. If you need any help message me! Good luck!

slhoward1122

Sabrina

Мама двоих (младенец)

I'm praying for you! I hope things turn around for you! ❤

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