So I've been told that i will be induced at 38-39 weeks. We will find out friday. I was scared and wanted people to be…
So I've been told that i will be induced at 38-39 weeks. We will find out friday. I was scared and wanted people to be around and that people would be happy for me and excited with me, but Nope... Now I'm totally over people and people always expecting us to put them in to consideration. But all they do is give unslistied advice and try to pressure me in to things. I am yeah i understand that they care but why should that matter if they just shove there advice down my throat... Not going to happen... So my husband and i have decided. That we will not tell people( family, friends) that our baby has arrived till a month later. This is our baby and we don't have to allow anyone around her. I need time to adjust to being a first time mom, i want to bond with our baby and I don't want to stress over people coming over and shoving there advice, antics down my throat. So excited to get to know our baby and spend this very special time with her.
Mother Of Him&Her·
I know that feeling, no one knew about my first until like 3 months after delivery.
Andi·
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We haven't told anyone except close family and friends we are expecting.. and I feel we might not share that shes here well after she is here for these reasons!! Your not alone I 100% agree with you!!
AngelFirstTimeMommy·
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@wolfnurturer that's great. How did you go about doing that? My husband just wants us to stright up tell everyone that we don't want anyone around till our daughter she is a month old.
AngelFirstTimeMommy·
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@chaoticandloveit i regret telling as many people as I did. Next time will be very different.
Andi·
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@angelbrownell26 best of luck to you next time around! And with this baby I hope everything is easy and your baby and you are healthy!!
Mother Of Him&Her·
@angelbrownell26 I just walked in their doors with a 3 month old baby lol
AngelFirstTimeMommy·
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@chaoticandloveit lol wow, they didn't check up on u?
Andi·
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@angelbrownell26 which people?
AngelFirstTimeMommy·
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@chaoticandloveit thank you so much! I don't know how it will all turn out. My husband's mom, sisters and brither in law and nephew, lives litterly on the other side of the main road. Lol
AngelFirstTimeMommy·
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@chaoticandloveit opps sorry that question was for @wolfnurturer . lol sorry
Mother Of Him&Her·
@angelbrownell26 No girl, some people are just never there. They knew how to get in touch and we were supposed to be family. I decided not to be the person to always be first and others don't try. So I showed them my child and let them decide what they plan to do and basically they did what I expected. Thankfully the other side of my kids family is closer. Funny thing though I was always around my family and then when I couldn't hide the pregnancy anymore around them I just slowly stopped showing up for about 6 weeks or less, then had the baby, and then 3 months later showed them.
AngelFirstTimeMommy·
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@wolfnurturer dang, I'm so sorry. Huge hugs
Mother Of Him&Her·
@angelbrownell26 It's okay, I've learned a lot. It just makes me love my kids harder and want them to have a way different and better life than me.