Why Can't My Baby Daddy Step Up and Be a Father?
Dumb of me to ever think that maybe after my pregnancy or after having my son ! My baby daddy would change.. i guess i was wrong im just going to have to understand that we’re not meant to be and maybe he’s just not ready to be a father ‘ i thank his mom for stepping in for him and doing what her son doesn’t do like buy him diapers , gives me money for my son and so on , i don’t want to sound ungrateful because i am not but i feel that as a mother she should encourage her son to do the right things but i am noone to judge to the way others raise their kids all i can say is that in the end it’s only going to hurt him when he sees that my son is getting older and ends up not knowing who he is , 🤷♀️ everything is this way because of him as a mother i am doing what im supposed to i wish guys understood that their doesn’t have to be a relationship with the mother of your child for you to step in and be their for your kid its all about being a father if you laid down and made a kid why can’t you be their for him? BUT He’s young one day he’ll understand not by anyone telling him anything but by tough battles and experiences life will throw at him .
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@krystab5892, im going to come to you for advice now you really have me thinking 😩💯❤️
@krystab5892, !!!!!!!!!!! YES!!! WE LOVE A WISE QUEEN @chanell20, hun, if I can say the least, I’m going through the same stuff, so if you ever want to talk to someone, you can ALWAYS come and talk to me.
@chanell20, it’s natural to feel hurt but there comes a time where you need to be strong for your baby. Polish up your spine because baby girl, he ain’t sitting up in his room crying while the baby sleeps because you need him to step up...it hurts I know but that’s also the bed we made for ourselves. We made a baby with this kind of person and now it’s time to be strong and show your baby that mama, no matter what, will always have your baby boys back and nothing can ever come between that. Take that baby’s love that he’s given you, amplify that by a million and you’ll learn your baby daddy is just a baby daddy and he ain’t shit. We don’t cry over ain’t shit dudes. So don’t cry anymore mama. Hold your head up and show him how much y’all can live without his lame ass
@krystab5892, yes girl ! Ive been so hurt im tired of crying like what else can i do besides cry lol
Don’t excuse his behavior by being “young”
He didn’t use it as an excuse to lay up, he don’t get to use it to excuse himself from being a father. No man is a man if he isn’t raising his own blood...there are even men raising children that aren’t even theirs.!!! Let that pathetic trash let it be known what he really is. You’re queen girl, always know that. He cannot mentally and physically do what you’re doing and that by itself makes you superhuman compared to him.
Slap his ass with child support and see how fast he wanna turn a page
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