Feeling like my fiance is cheating on me. I went to see if his phone was charging and he has this…

Confront him about it after finding out her contact info and messaging her and asking her who tf in case he tries to lie.

If it’s a game chat, they were probably playing an online game and he stopped all of a sudden, so she literally was like- did you fall asleep on me? I would just ask him who that is and what she was talking about.

@amysbabies, Agreed. Most gamers who don't have kids are on a different schedule. My husband's phone is constantly going off with notifications of his guild on discord.

@amysbabies no he just has the chat an he said that he talk to a girl and a few guys but why on earth world you need to talk to a girl if you are engaged

@laynehelen that is what he has

@sarasmilesatyou I can't he keeps his phone on him

Don't make yourself crazy over this. My husband has the exact same thing, it's how he keeps up with his online buddies. Just ask him about her if you are curious. I agree with @laynehelen , that it sounds like he just stopped playing the game and she was curious where he went.

I did an it a guy that is turning into a girl

@luv_my_family_016 Has he cheated before? Is this something he'd do? Why do your thoughts go straight to cheating?

No. No he would not.

@luv_my_family_016, my husband talks to girls still-nothing romantic, he has always just been friends with girls in his life. I would rather he not, but hey, I trust him and he doesn’t hang out with them unless there’s a group. This is a talk you need to have now before marriage. If you are not comfortable with it and he does not want to stop then you simply might not want to marry, if you can deal or he can, than great- just don’t flip once married. :) I mean this in the nicest way possible. Who we engage is who we marry. It’s not a good sign if your first thought goes to cheating. Talk and be open 💕.

My husband chats with all sorts of random people, male and female, about games. Some on FB groups, some in Discord. And elsewhere, idk, I’m not a huge gamer. But definitely just be open! It bugged me when we first started dating but just being open that I felt weird about it made a huge difference. I’m better friends with one of the girls than he is. She’ll get on PS4 and tell him to hand the headset to wifey because we need to talk about dogs and makeup. 😂

So it really most likely isn’t anything at all!