Anybody else have no one to watch their other child/children while giving birth ? So we just moved 11 hours away from my…
Anybody else have no one to watch their other child/children while giving birth ? So we just moved 11 hours away from my father in-law and don’t know absolutely anybody and I’m stressing about it! 😞 my fiancé suggested a professional babysitter but it just doesn’t set with me right having some random person with my babyboy regardless if it’s at our house so I told him he’s out of his mind!
Corinne Severs·
Мама сына (2 года)
I'd interview a couple babysiters then have them come by a couple times to get to know them before the birth. You don't want to have an 11 month in the hospital with you, that would be hard.
Kayla·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего
@fakoff.diehexe, I wish we could but he’s a teacher so more likely not.
Kayla·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего
@cori.severs, I was thinking we could have my fiancé’s boss and his wife watch her but he doesn’t want to ask him because he just started this job October 1st
Letty ·
See if you can pay the trip to one of your relatives to come help you
Kayla·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего
@mrs.letty.luna, I don’t associate with any of my relatives...they’re all toxic
MassMomma16·
Our hospital doesn’t allow any children in the delivery room.
Teri G.·
Мама троих детей
I feel your pain... I agree with @cori.severs. It seems like trying out a few babysitters beforehand is the answer. I've never tried care.com but their sitters are supposed to be reviewed & background checked. I'm looking into it since I don't have family members I trust either, other than my mom, but she's getting way too old sit a newborn, & I need a daytime alternative.
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@nfb061417, did you decide where you’re delivering?!
Ally Cardona ·
Мама троих детей
Luckily I found a sweet neighbor friend to help me out with my oldest.
Kayla·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего
@sarahbethk, Advocate In Chicago
Kayla·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего
@terieg, my fiancé was looking into care.com also but I’m just so nervous about it!
Kayla·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего
@mama.ally2009, I wish I could find a nice neighbor lol.
Teri G.·
Мама троих детей
@nfb061417 me too. I was thinking of, after choosing someone, interviewing them, asking for references, & doing an internet search on them. That's the best I can think of. Oh, & Nanny cams/security system cameras where you can watch their every move from your cell phone.
Kayla·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего
@terieg, yeah he wants to do the same and we have cameras already.