God, you are so amazing in the face of everything.

I might also add "first date".

You could also add more personalized ones like "when you miss me extra badly", "first heartbreak" or "when you need advice"... things like that. Times when it'd be extra tough not having mom around. Maybe even one they could watch each mother's day.

Damn, I'm crying just typing this out. I cannot imagine how hard doing all this must be.😔💞

How about a general “when you need to see mom or hear her voice” and just talk about how much you love them and the special parts of their personalities that made them unique, their strengths. Hugs? KitKat. My thoughts continue to be with you.

May you rest in peace Kit Kat, I remember you from the beginning on BB land. When you got diagnosed until now, so sorry to hear you are gone you have brought many women together and have always been there for you. You will truly be missed I will be praying for your kids and your family.

I'm only a stranger online and I dreaded the day for this kind of update. My love goes out to you and your children. Fly high angel, kit kat. 💕

You are definitely missed KitKat. Prayers going out to your family. May you rest peacefully. Sincerest condolences to your family. 💕😢

we will all miss you you have touched us so deeply and were an inspiration!!!

a truly amazing STRONG mama those babies are lucky to have you watching over them

Such a soul to be missed. God bless you.

I naively thought you would post again... 😔

Such an amazing, strong, admirable and inspirational woman! Soar high with the Angels KitKat ❤❤❤

In a better place now 😇 RIP💜💗🌷

I was unfortunate and didn't get the chance to meet you but I will miss you! I hope Heaven treats you amazing!💗🌈 Rest in peace.

@Kitkat-1987,I didn't know you at all.TO HAVE all these women come together for once Speaks Volumes of the Amazing Soul you were to so many more than you knew.May you be safe in the Arms of the Angels Where All Your Pain is gone and you are new again ! I pray your children will grow up and feel your love always surround them.I can tell by reading your post s how you gave it your all. YOU WILL be their Gift for ever a Mother's bond never leaves her children no matter how old they get!

🙏🙏🙏❤😢😘

Fly high, KitKat. We love you. 💜💕

Such a strong woman 😞 you will be missed 😢

KitKat you are so strong. Every time I read your post i cannot wrap my head around how powerful of a person you are. I admire you! I pray for you ! I hope you have as much time with your kids as possible. 💪❤️❤️❤️

I had been thinking about her recently. Prayers for her family and especially her children!

Thank you for the update. I come and check this post often Hoping to hear from her. My heart breaks for her and her family.

My heart breaks for her! I think of her everyday and wonder how she is doing! @kymom12 thank for sharing this update! @kitkat-1987 if you get the chance to read this we're all thinking of you amd sending lots of love to you! ❤❤❤

This is so sad 😞

I dont have facebook, what is the update? Praying for kitkat and her family.

KitKat i follow one of your support pages on Facebook and I just saw yesterday’s update. My heart breaks for you and your family. You may never see this but your story will always stick with me. You will never be forgotten. Still praying for a miracle for you. You are an amazing, strong woman and mother. Love and prayers for you and your family. ❤️

hope you are doing well ❤

Praying for you ❤️ I don’t get on this channel much anymore but you crossed my mind. I hope you’re doing well

Thinking of you and your family. Hope everyone is doing well. ❤

hope you are doing well

I think of her and pray for her all the time, I think she might be on fb, but I don’t talk to her.

Does anyone talk to her out side of ML? Ive been thinking about kitkat a lot lately anyone know how shes doing?

Thinking of you and your family💖

Thinking of you ❤

You're in my prayers🙏❤

Never be afraid of overwhelming them. I lost mom about 5 years back and I wish I had the things that your doing for your precious babies. They’ll appreciate all that you’ve done for them ❤️ stay strong momma ❤️

They’re so young, tell them about yourself. About the mommy they didn’t get to know. Your favorite movie when you were a kid. Your favorite books, favorite places to go, favorite foods, favorite songs. I’m sure being able to watch or listen or read the things that you did and loved will help them feel a little closer to you.

You have no idea how happy I was to see a post from you! I haven’t been on in a bit and have wondered about you. Last time I was on here, I didn’t see you. You never seize to amaze me. Everyone already left great ideas. I love that you’re doing this. They will cherish this in the future so much. Sending you my love. ❤️

How about THEIR birth stories, tell them about the day they were born❤

Omg girl! I just redownloaded this app and I'm sooo happy to see you here :) you are so so so strong I admire your strength so much.

Whatever you record just keep reminding them that no matter what you will always be with them. I can't even imagine how hard this is for you and your family! My mom passed away very suddenly last year and her last words was to her fiance telling him to tell me she loves me. I don't even know what else to say other than just leave reminders to tell them how much you love them.

A video covering your hopes and dreams for each of them and their life path, who you think they will grow to be. How proud you will always be regardless of where they go, what they make of themselves.

You've been so strong through this, and even if some things get left out, I know that your children will see how hard you worked to leave a piece of you. They will know you're always with them and that you love them endlessly. 💕

I hope you get all your videos done. Sending you strength and love! 😘

This post and thread left me in tears. I cannot commend you enough for what a great woman and mother you are. All of these ladies left you with such great ideas. You are doing the absolute best for your children with what you can. Continuing to wish you the best and keep both you and your family in my thoughts.

Everyone has given you such great ideas! I’m in awe of your strength, KitKat. I tear up each time I read a post from you. 💜

I have never commented on any of your posts but have been following your story and it has been hitting me extra hard lately as my niece and nephew will be going thru the same thing as your children, my bil was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer in the beginning of the summer. Your strength & courage is amazing!! 💕💕

Thinking of your daughter id say make a video for her when she gets her first cycle.

Along with @grandmamims, maybe some parenting tips, hacks and tricks. Advice about becoming a parent and the struggle they may go through. The pressure some give to new parents on what to name baby, how to parents. Give them your advice ❤️

My mom started a baby book with my firsts and stuff like that but never finished it. I wish she would have so I can read about it.

First heart break for sure...

First job, college, when you miss me, not just first child but first pregnancy you can give a little advice to what it's like.

I know this is weird but maybe important convos like periods, sex talk, or things like that and then talk to dh or someone close to you who can be involved in those and them to answer questions. Middle and high school are tough years so maybe random encouraging words or if not videos letters do those times dealing with disappointment or bullies. I have this little saying I say to my kids every night if you have something like that just word of encouragement. At bed time I tell them "tomorrow is a new day to do big things. Get some rest and be the best you that you can be." Maybe do a build a bear record you saying something like that so they have that special saying when they need it

Seems out of the blue with this post but could you write down about your family history? My mom and grandma are both gone and I wish I had more detail of things.

And maybe some things you did as a child, what your favorite things were and etc.

I’m in tears every time you post! My god!! You are an incredibly strong woman!

Not really what you’re asking for, but I would leave them both a file or something with birth certificates, ss cards, and any other important documents. I lost both of my parents, my dad several years following my mom. He didn’t leave me anything of importance. I was a minor with no drivers license, birth certificate, ss card, I. D. Of any kind. I couldn’t get a job or do anything at all until I turned 18, and it was horrible.

I know that you don’t want to think of something like that happening to them. You’d think the loss of one parent is enough on a child, but you can never be too cautious.

Oh KitKat, you are one of the strongest women I’ve ever gotten the pleasure to meet! Adding your history, broken hearts, fights with Dad, difficult teachers, and I want to see/hear Mom messages would probably mean the work to your kids. I wish we would’ve had time to do this for my stepson when his mom passed; he wanted to hear her voice so much.

You are such an amazing woman, mom, and role model. You’re creating a wonderful gift for your children and showing them what it truly means to be strong. Thank you for being such an amazing person!

What about your family history and your life story? That is something I wished I had from my grandparents. You could write these, rather than record.

But I love the idea of the “sound bites”; singing favorite songs, calling them by favorite nicknames, just little bits of encouragement.

You are an amazing momma, and your kids will know that and feel your boundless love for them every time they watch your videos 💜

I def agree with something when they want to hear your voice when my mom died it was super hard when you imagine talking to them and can no longer remember their voice no matter how hard you try. With this something just a general talk in conversation tone or since your kids are young maybe reading them a book 💜💜

I'm sorry sweety it has got to be a difficult thing to do

I hope u get everything done you wish to ❤💙💚💛BIG HUGS!!!

1st broken heart?

things that may not be happy but thei still need ur advice

What about the birds and the bees and your period does suck? Maybe some Mommy fun facts, some of your favorite things or funny stories. I love the build a bears with you saying I love you 😍. Things don’t have to be given to them all at once, but at times when they need them. I believe you will always watch over them. Your so brave, amazing and loved by so many 🤗🙏

Y'all never disappoint❤️❤️i'm definitely going to add when they just need mom and most likely some others. they both already have build a bears with my voice saying I love them that my some of my ashes will be places it. I'm just scared I'm going to overwhelm the with stuff because I'm just not ready to leave them.

I had another thought too. It might be nice to include some sound bytes - something they could download to their phone just to hear an audio clip. Maybe of you singing "You are my sunshine" (if you like to sing lullabys), or telling a funny joke - whatever would give them a snippet of you when they need it.

So many hugs and prayers to you and your family, momma.

You are amazing and everytime I see your posts I am in tears. The list you have plus some of these suggestions are amazing.

You have a great list and I love the suggestion of “when you need to hear my voice”. Tell them how strong and smart they are and how they can accomplish and pull through anything. I am thinking of you and your precious kids always.

How about talking to them about their first time having sex? Your thoughts and advices?

I know it could be a weird subject to talk about because they are little right now...but I am sure they would love to hear their moms point of view.

First home?

Drivers license?

First car?

First kiss?

Hugs! Take care

"when you need to hear my voice or see mom."

You are so strong KitKat and you and your kids are always in my thoughts. 💜 I cannot imagine how hard this is for you.

Edit: hugs. (No ?)

How about a general “when you need to see mom or hear her voice” and just talk about how much you love them and the special parts of their personalities that made them unique, their strengths. Hugs? KitKat. My thoughts continue to be with you.

God, you are so amazing in the face of everything.

I might also add "first date".

You could also add more personalized ones like "when you miss me extra badly", "first heartbreak" or "when you need advice"... things like that. Times when it'd be extra tough not having mom around. Maybe even one they could watch each mother's day.

Damn, I'm crying just typing this out. I cannot imagine how hard doing all this must be.😔💞

Also how about. Purchase of their first home?

Birth of their first child?

I'm so sorry kitkat. I'm sending positive thoughts and prayers your way. 💜🙏

21st birthday? College graduation?