Well husband told me after this little girl to get fixed. So guess I'll have to gets pissed when I ask if I can get on depo. He dont want no more at all. What would y'all do if y'all had same conversation
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We had a similar discussion for after this ds is born...my SO will be getting snipped
Girl tbh I wouldn’t get your tubes tied I think a women should keep there stuff of what they were born with tbh so honestly I would go on birth control and if you end up pregnant oh well tell him to pull out or wear a rubber cause I told hubby if he ever tell me to get fixed I’m not cause I want to keep my lady stuff until I die because then I’ll feel old
I think you two really need to have a more serious conversation. That way you can decide what route is best for you. y’all need to be on the same page. He sounds like he doesn’t want more. So what happens if you accidentally become pregnant again? If he is that serious he doesn’t want more he should get a vasectomy. He can’t tell you that you should be the one to get fixed. As for me and my family I got my tubes tied the day after having my baby boy. But this was the best option for us. As I’m a stay at home mom and my husband owns his own business where he is the sole employee so if he doesn’t work we don’t have money coming in. Therefore it made more sense for me to get it done. Plus I was already in the hospital from having the baby.
Vasectomy is waaaaaaaaaaay easier and over in a snip. (See what I did there)
@bitchcraft I couldn't have said it better 😂😂
I agree if he doesn't want more and he is positive he should be the one taking those steps
Yeah I’d have him get fixed I refuse to take out any of my parts or tie and twist them up and cause my body that stress.
Well I would tell him to get fixed. BUT you really both should feel 100% done before doing that.
Tell him a Vasectomy is essentially painless. Why is it the woman that has to get fixed? That shit messes with our hormones. Men don't have to worry about menopause and fucked up hormones.
If he's sure he's done then he can get a vasectomy. Are you wanting more children?
Well I agreed honestly its up to you if you dont want to don't me and my husband are married I don't plan on leaving and we have two so I'm good with where I am so I'm happy with getting fixed
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!
I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Tell him to get a vasectomy. 🤷🏻♀️