Well husband told me after this little girl to get fixed. So guess I'll have to gets pissed when I…

Well I agreed honestly its up to you if you dont want to don't me and my husband are married I don't plan on leaving and we have two so I'm good with where I am so I'm happy with getting fixed

If he's sure he's done then he can get a vasectomy. Are you wanting more children?

Tell him a Vasectomy is essentially painless. Why is it the woman that has to get fixed? That shit messes with our hormones. Men don't have to worry about menopause and fucked up hormones.

Well I would tell him to get fixed. BUT you really both should feel 100% done before doing that.

Yeah I’d have him get fixed I refuse to take out any of my parts or tie and twist them up and cause my body that stress.

I agree if he doesn't want more and he is positive he should be the one taking those steps

@bitchcraft I couldn't have said it better 😂😂

Vasectomy is waaaaaaaaaaay easier and over in a snip. (See what I did there)

I think you two really need to have a more serious conversation. That way you can decide what route is best for you. y’all need to be on the same page. He sounds like he doesn’t want more. So what happens if you accidentally become pregnant again? If he is that serious he doesn’t want more he should get a vasectomy. He can’t tell you that you should be the one to get fixed. As for me and my family I got my tubes tied the day after having my baby boy. But this was the best option for us. As I’m a stay at home mom and my husband owns his own business where he is the sole employee so if he doesn’t work we don’t have money coming in. Therefore it made more sense for me to get it done. Plus I was already in the hospital from having the baby.

Girl tbh I wouldn’t get your tubes tied I think a women should keep there stuff of what they were born with tbh so honestly I would go on birth control and if you end up pregnant oh well tell him to pull out or wear a rubber cause I told hubby if he ever tell me to get fixed I’m not cause I want to keep my lady stuff until I die because then I’ll feel old

We had a similar discussion for after this ds is born...my SO will be getting snipped

Tell him to get a vasectomy. 🤷🏻‍♀️