I saw this on Facebook and I can’t stress this enough.
My daughters biological fathers family and himself are so absent out of her life it’s not even funny.
I won’t keep her from seeing them IF SHE wants too. I won’t force her to see them IF SHE doesn’t want too either. She will have every right. 🤷🏼♀️
She will get to pick and choose if she wants to love them as well. My sisters and I got the same thing and both my dads side and my moms side reached out to us even though my moms side never met me or my little sister and we picked to love them because they made the effort to love us back. 🤷🏼♀️
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@bitchcraft, that’s what I plan on doing. I love being a single mom even though it’s hard at times but I get all of the kisses and cuddles and get to watch her grow up.
@mr.aidensmommy, her dad comes around when he wants too. He has another baby on the way as well.
@caityyy_lynnn, we may not know each other, but I can already tell that your a great mother to your little girl. But tbh with you, if we’re keeping 💯, everything that’s happening, won’t effect her in anyway, because she never met them. They can’t hurt her in anyway, shape or form. The other day I finally brought my son around my dads side of the family, and I was told that it’s my fault that I don’t bring my son around because he doesn’t know anyone. When I left that door open for them, I did my part. If they want to see my son, fine. If not. That’s fine too. My son will my okay with or with out them in his life.
@mr.aidensmommy, her bio dad’s side never contacts me. They want me to contact them not realizing I have my own life and a baby to take care of. They are more excited about him having another baby with a different girl compared to when they told us were stupid for getting pregnant with my daughter. I’ve been so nice but I know all of this will effect her in the end.
I can’t stress this enough. My family on my dads side have been so absent from my life that now that I’m a mother they’re trying to play the part. WHEN I KNOW DAMN WELL THEY WILL BE ABSENT IN HIS.
SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE ONES TRYING TO PLAY THE PART JUST FOR FUCKING SHOW
@mamauv, @jennyrae17, I feel it. I definitely feel it.
I’ll be teaching my son to love everyone. But you don’t have to like everyone. Everyone needs to be treated with kindness and respect but if these relatives don’t want to put in the effort than it’s my son’s choice to like them and want to be around them or not.