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Makayla Smith
Makayla Smith
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (32 нед.)

What are the odds that my dr will check my cervix tomorrow considering what happened over the weekend??

What are the odds that my dr will check my cervix tomorrow considering what happened over the weekend??

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beakymcspence

Beaky Mcspence

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@rebelprincesz24, I work on L&D so I kinda figured he wouldn’t want to risk it hun ❤️

rebelprincesz24

Makayla Smith

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (32 нед.)

@beakymcspence, you were right, he didn’t check me today, said he didn’t wanna chance the contractions starting up again.

rebelprincesz24

Makayla Smith

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (32 нед.)

@beakymcspence, yeah they didn’t stop it with my daughter who came at 36 weeks. I just didn’t wanna have her this early because of what happened with my first kinda scares me.

beakymcspence

Beaky Mcspence

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@rebelprincesz24, I had my oldest son at 34w3 and I had no indication but with my daughter Memphis I was 2cm dilated and 75% effaced from 33 weeks till she was born at 38 weeks 🤷‍♀️ As long as your not contracting you can walk around dilated for quite some time. Likely the bed rest will help. I’d say if you make it to the 36 mark they won’t stop labour.

rebelprincesz24

Makayla Smith

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (32 нед.)

@hail, thank you😊

rebelprincesz24

Makayla Smith

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (32 нед.)

@beakymcspence, they gave me the toradol while I was in the hospital and put me on antibiotics for my bladder infection, I haven’t had anymore contractions either so maybe he will start checking again at 36 weeks, if I make it that far. I’m only 2cm dilated but they said I was 80% effaced

hail

Hailie

We’ll just voice your concerns and let him know how you’re feeling and I’m sure he’ll have a solution or atleast a few words to make you feel better. Good luck hun!

rebelprincesz24

Makayla Smith

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (32 нед.)

@hail, yeah that’s true but it’s always better to be safe than sorry, plus I’m sure he’s gonna wanna see me every week now

beakymcspence

Beaky Mcspence

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@rebelprincesz24, If they’ve given you medication to stop labour then there’d be no urgent reason to check again unless you present to them in labour. At least that’s our protocol on L&D. Repeat checking can cause further issue and put you at an elevated risk for infection. If it were me I’d request not being checked again unless they felt it absolutely necessary.

hail

Hailie

@rebelprincesz24, you can always decline

rebelprincesz24

Makayla Smith

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (32 нед.)

@hail, honestly I’d rather them not check yet lol it’s kinda painful for me.

rebelprincesz24

Makayla Smith

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (32 нед.)

@beakymcspence, when I was released from the hospital they checked my cervix before they would even let me go and I was still at a 2 so maybe my dr won’t check me since that was on Monday.

hail

Hailie

@rebelprincesz24, oh! I was just asking if you could ask them to if you wanted one. Here they won’t do it early unless something happens.

beakymcspence

Beaky Mcspence

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@rebelprincesz24, Doctors don’t usually do cervical checks this early, but if you’ve had a scare they might. Generally though if there’s been an issue they won’t due to risking irritating the cervix or causing further issue.

rebelprincesz24

Makayla Smith

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (32 нед.)

@hail, it’s not that I want them to, I had a scare Saturday that put me in the hospital until Monday. I’m 2cm dilated already and I was just wondering since all that happened if the dr would start checking me early.

hail

Hailie

You could ask them to?

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?