Chikky
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Chikky ·Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

I just had my anatomy scan, they suspect that the baby has "cleft lip, unilateral". I have to go to a specialist next week for confirmation. Has any momma dealt with this?? I'm heart broken

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chikky
Chikky ·Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

@jillian.g, you're so right. We got this Momma!! Like wise ;) we are also 2 weeks apart. We both can use the support

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jillianx
Jillian ·В ожидании первенца

@l.yesi, I know, I’m still trying to adjust to the news and I still have moments where I feel like my world is coming crashing down. I just never thought I would be dealing with this. I’ve been doing lots of reading on it. It helped getting as educated as I can on this. Our journey will definitely be more difficult than planned. We just have to try to stay strong. Feel free to message me if you ever want to talk more about it at any point.

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chikky
Chikky ·Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

@jillian.g, all I do is cry since yesterday but I will be strong and tackle the bull by the horns and do everything and anything for my princess. I'm not saying I'm ready but I know we will be troopers for our little ones...

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jillianx
Jillian ·В ожидании первенца

I just got this news too a couple weeks ago. It was a huge shock and I felt devastated. I understand how you feel. I’ve been trying to stay positive as possible but that was hard at first. Luckily, it’s fixable and our babies will still be beautiful ❤️

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chikky
Chikky ·Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

Thank you.

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del_1548783298_mamakiki3

Everything is going to be okay mama ! She's going to be beautiful little girl ❤️❤️

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chikky
Chikky ·Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

@preciouslove, thank you

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preciouslove
Angela·Мама четверых детей

@l.yesi, I kno mama I totally get it :( I’ll pray for u hopefully it was a false positive. Message me anytime!

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chikky
Chikky ·Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

@preciouslove, I just want her to be healthy and don't want her to be bullied, this world is cruel

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preciouslove
Angela·Мама четверых детей

@l.yesi, I don’t think that could be the reason it could jus have happened :/ but pray it was a false positive. Either way she will be ok my lil cousin who’s 13 has cleft lip and you couldn’t even tell. She will have to have surgery when she’s born to correct it and as she grows the scar will fade.

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preciouslove
Angela·Мама четверых детей

@l.yesi, your welcome! I know so much because I have to have those shots and so there’s a big risk of cleft with my pregnancies.

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chikky
Chikky ·Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

@preciouslove, non at all. This is my 3rd pregnancy. I got pregnant 6 weeks after giving birth

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chikky
Chikky ·Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

@preciouslove, thank you for all the information, I wasn't able to ask much questions because I was in shock & speeches. Wasn't until I came out and goggle what cleft was I didn't understand.

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preciouslove
Angela·Мама четверых детей

@l.yesi, do you have diabetes or are u on any meds? Start taking folic acid.

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preciouslove
Angela·Мама четверых детей

@l.yesi, did u notice it didn’t look right on her lip?

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preciouslove
Angela·Мама четверых детей

@l.yesi, yes mama because it’s a birth defect but it’s fixable thank God! Is she positive because there’s a lot of false positives on cleft lip on ultrasound.

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chikky
Chikky ·Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

@preciouslove, so because baby girl has cleft lip makes it high risk ?

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chikky
Chikky ·Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

@preciouslove, I'm so sorry for ur loss.. well I go next week to another clinic for another scan & I'll go back to the gyn In 3 weeks

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preciouslove
Angela·Мама четверых детей

@l.yesi, I get those shots when I’m pregnant because I lost twins at five months and I know side effect is cleft lip. When do you go back

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chikky
Chikky ·Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

@preciouslove, no I have not. The only thing the doctor told me ( she isn't my regular GYN,I had to see her since the anatomy scan has to be done before a certain time and my GYN was off) was that according to the scan the baby have cleft lip, & that I need another scan for confirmation. & that I'm consider a high risk pregnancy.

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preciouslove
Angela·Мама четверых детей

@l.yesi, did u get shots for preterm labor?

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chikky
Chikky ·Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

@preciouslove, thank you, I really hope so.

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preciouslove
Angela·Мама четверых детей

@l.yesi, don’t worry hun they can fix:) it’ll all work out she will be perfect ❤️

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squishybaby
Kate ·В ожидании первенца

Don’t worry heart broken momma, there are many doctors out there able to fix cleft lips, and don’t you dare think you did anything wrong, it’s almost as common as getting wisdom teeth taken out. You’re baby will be just fine, adorable and even more loved. So many babies don’t survive past birth from so many other worse problems involving their hearts alone.

You got this.

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chikky
Chikky ·Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

Thank you.

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mamadrick
Dricka Blake·В ожидании первенца

Praying everything is okay! ❤️

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