Feeling pretty concerned for when both my parents go back to work and im alone with avian all day every week cause so far the days were alone together are a disaster.
@mariapb either way he does, because he is unhappy only when she is around
@loving-life, so this will be the third time I’ve told you I’ve read her posts! What is your point? You’re still wrong for saying her son hates her!
@mariapb this is the third time I'm telling you that she calls her son stupid, are intentionally ignoring this part?
@loving-life, and that’s absolutely fine, if you choose to offer any advice that I give I won’t lose sleep over it. You’re obviously missing the part where I’ve said I agree she needs help. Read her posts you’ll see I’ve said the same things to her. Is telling her that her son hates her helpful? Absolutely not! If you think it is then we’re totally different kinds of people!
@mariapb she MUST get help if not for her own sake at least for her little child! But she DOES NOT CARE!!!!!!! She calls him stupid, how the hell is that normal?
@loving-life, so we should all just go round telling people that their children hate them. GTF! You don’t get to choose what people do! You might not agree with her but you could’ve scrolled past, but no you stopped to tell her that her child hates her, go you!
@loving-life, I’ve read her posts, and commented on lots of them just like everyone else! Just because she doesn’t take advice that you give doesn’t mean you should tell her that her son hates her? How is that helpful? Did you ever stop to think what reading that might do to someone who is clearly struggling? I 100% agree that she should get help, but maybe this app is her help. Maybe she reads things on here that help her get through the day, maybe posting on here helps her carry on. What she doesn’t need is someone telling her that her son hates her!
@mariapb You think her little child does not sense when she wants to give him up for adoption because she is tired, hasn't slept and can't care for him anymore? You think her little child does not sense when she calls him stupid? Are you out of your mind??? How can you support her?
@mariapb What support?? Did you ever read her posts, did you???? She's been told by many moms on this app to GET HELP! You telling me I am a vile? What caring and loving mother on this earth would call her baby STUPID??? Read through all her posts and do not tell me what to write
@avianlouiebos, don’t listen to that, he doesn’t hate you. You’re his world even though you’re not seeing that yet. He’s still little, he doesn’t realise what your tears are. He’s just reacting to something different. @loving-life, you are vile, what a disgusting thing to say to someone who clearly needs support!
Welp maybe now you can focus on taking care of getting your son a referral to a pediatrician????
Agreed. There's only so many times people can point out the obvious. SEEK HELP! You're the parent, you know what the issue is...so get your ass in gear and do something about it. Enough with all of these "woe is me" posts and then never responding to what people have to say. Its beyond annoying.
He’s your baby not theirs. You need to take responsibility. If you don’t feel you can care for him yourself while their at work then seek help. You need to get to the root of your issues. Is it postpartum depression? Then get help.
@fakoffyeh, yeah, I figured that out as I kept reading. Well it doesn't hurt to say it again. Maybe one day it will click and she'll get her ass in gear and take control of her life.
I get the impression she's very young and hasn't had to do much (or anything) for herself in life thus far - paving the way for a difficult road ahead.
I'm pretty concerned reading your previous posts. Have you spoken to your doctor about the difficulties you are having? It seems you may have PPD, and that it's affecting your ability to parent.
Please make an appointment or call a nurse line, talk to your parents about it and get a plan in place so you can handle day to day stuff with your child without feeling out of control or hopeless. You and your son deserve to have a better relationship with each other.
@rasul.nadine so far all the days were alone together have not been good days
First day alone with my munchkin!
Tomorrow is the first day alone without my mom to help out and babys been screamy around everyone not just me the past two days :/ dreading it. What to do with a grumpy baby for 8+ hours alone?! :/ I went for a four hour walk with him last week just to keep him sorta happy that killed my legs though
So hard to be so close and so far apart I pass by your house twice a day youre in an arms reach but im still so alone
23 weeks in two days and my lower back kills! Am I alone in this?! Who's dues in February?
"My Husband Work Tooooooooo Much. I Miss Him Wayyyyyyyy Too Much. Home Alone W. Nothing To Do" His Only Off Day Is Sunday & Sunday Go By To Fast.. 😢😥😧😩😞
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He’s your baby not theirs. You need to take responsibility. If you don’t feel you can care for him yourself while their at work then seek help. You need to get to the root of your issues. Is it postpartum depression? Then get help.
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Agreed. There's only so many times people can point out the obvious. SEEK HELP! You're the parent, you know what the issue is...so get your ass in gear and do something about it. Enough with all of these "woe is me" posts and then never responding to what people have to say. Its beyond annoying.