Well i feel like a complete idiot. Ill never get my girl daisy back. I should have just never even tried. I don't know what i was thinking. I feel like i failed her in so many ways. Im so heart broken and sad. I did everything i could to protect her and give her the best life i could. I just pray someone adopts her. I don't want her to live her life in the humane society. That would be the worst thing ever. She deserves a home and a family who will love her as much as we did maybe even more. I wish her the best on this journey called life.
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@liz41395 thank u! Yeah your right she absolutely would have not made it. Even if she didn't get pregnant she would have died from cancer. She had pollups that they removed that would have turned in to cancer if they did not get removed.
I know you have another fur baby, so I wanted to let you know that many vets will let you have a payment plan for your pets care... just an fyi
I’m so sorry to hear about Daisy. You did what you had to do. I hope she goes to really good home! Sorry they won’t let you have her back in your home. I hope it doesn’t stress you out too much mama. U got a little baby to think of too. At least if she was on the site that means she made a good recovery. If you didn’t take her in she may not be alive at all.
I'm guessing they may constitute what you did to be neglect
@angelbrownell26, oh it sounded like it just happened recently. I’m guessing they are making sure she goes to a new home.
@knockout tis not soon. She is completely healed. Shes been there for over a month. And they even posted her on there web page. Then after my brother inlaw applied for her they took her off the website because he has the same last name(my husband's brother )
@angelbrownell26, it sounds like they are holding her till she heals and most human society centers get the animals spayed/neutered so that might be why she’s unavailable. I doubt they would put her back out for adoption so soon.
However no offense because I’m sure you did all you could for her, it doesn’t sound like you are in a position right now to have a fur baby. They do cost a lot and need regular checkups and are a lot of responsibility.
Unfortunately her puppies didn't make it. I took her in to late for them to survive. I feel awful about it. Even though i would have taken her in sooner but had no transportation to take her.
@knockout i called the day after i surrendered her. She survived and is doing great. Ive checked on her periodically including today. They said shes not available right now. Which im hoping means shes been adopted by someone else. Or they jusr figured out that i was trying to get her back. I have no other family that could even apply for her even if shes not adopted.
@angelbrownell26, well I guess it’s good that she found someone quickly so she wasn’t in their for long; or Did they give you a checkup on her? Did she survive the surgery?
@knockout we did have a family member apply for her. My aunt got the call yesterday saying shes no longer available. :(
Also i didn't breed her. I tried to get my male dog a home but the people who took him brought him back that same day at night time because they changed there minds about him because they had two other dogs. So i tried to keep them separate but that clearly didn't work. At the time i had no transportation or money to get her fixed. So unfortunately this happened. :(
@angelbrownell26, I would have a friend or family member go in an adopt her back if they won’t let you. I understand medical bills are expensive but furbabies are Family 😩 I couldn’t imagine leaving my baby like that. Most vets work with you with a payment plan, you don’t have to have it all upfront. I was a vet tech for 2.5 years emergency C Sections are scary business! We had to do one at 4am on a chihuahua that ended up with 8 puppies 😳😳 it was a long night but we saved them all (had to bring 3 back to life)
Edit: also PSA to anyone else with fur babies, most clinics do discounted spay/neuter days were you can take your pets in for almost 70% off normal prices, and they do rabies shots too.
@angelbrownell26 none of the people you had put in applications were chosen?
@knockout i never adopted her. She was already mine. But i had to give her up so she would not die from being in labor. She was not dialated at all. So the only option i had was to surrender her.
@newlyironman @newlyironman i had to surrender her over because she was in labor for 36 hours and all vets wanted 700.00$- 1,200.00$ for a c section. There was no way for me to come up with that kind of money. So it was either give her up or let her die. I felt it was a better option to give her up then let her die. I would have surrendered her sooner but i had no transportation to get her there till the time i did.
Awee why did you take her back after you adopted her?
@gorgeousmay42217 Thank you! Im praying they do. 💗
Oh no, momma! I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm sure she won't be there long, they'll find her a good home. 💕
I know you guys don't like name posts..
But what's that one baby name you love but could never name your baby?
Will your Mom be in the delivery room?
My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
So idk if I’m an asshole for thinking this but a girl I used to go to school with is having her 3rd kid and she’s planning a baby shower and she had one with her other two. I feel like a baby shower is something you do with ur first pregnancy. I live far from my family so I didn’t have one but i did have a baby registry and I’m not even doing that with this pregnancy. Idk I just feel like 3 baby showers is a lot! Especially when she gets things handed to her. Idk maybe I’m an ass for thinking that

My beautiful little girl went to be with God, her baby sister, and her uncle yesterday morning! I wish so badly that she was still here with me. She was my best friend and my rock. My beautiful sweet baby! My heart went with her! I will never stop missing you my beAutiful Hannah Nicole! Moms always trust your gut feeling and NEVER believe a doctor when they try to change your mind. My baby would still be here with me if the doctors just listened. She went to have a pik line put in which is like ...
AM I THE ONLY ONE
Who feels like when I'm on the highway traveling and me and a car follow eachother for awhile, I feel like we are friends and when they exit I get sad?!? Because if I'm not the only one who feels like this then I have the BEST story of my life for you.
@ohnstadk thank you! Yeah i tries that. They wouldn't allow me to, they said i had to have money for them in order for them to even look at her. I tried everything.
With my other fur baby. Were trying to get out if the whole and when we do were making an emergency fund for him. I feel completely awful that she went threw this.