I need some words of encouragement if you ladies care to chime in. I don't know where to start. We've been living with my husbands folks for 2 years because. we've been paying off debt. Were almost done, thank God! We began looking at houses However some issues have arose with h's work and he may be getting laid off because the company was bought. So he has seemingly made an unilateral desicion to stop looking for houses (which I get) HOWEVER he want a to stay with his parents for another freaking year!!! Just to put money in the savings. Not for a downpymnt, not to save for car payment (which I'm paying, just bought btw) just to save. Baby boy will be here in sept!!!! I can't be here for another friggin year!! They don't have a Big house, we don't have a basement or anything to be able to retreat to except our bedroom. Which only a wall separates us from their room . Too long? I can keep going. lol We will have to share a tiny room with new baby. We all know what new babies are like during the night! Where am I suppose to retreat too when he starts crying in the middle of the night every night? Does he expect me to go hide in the bedroom isolated from him and my 5 yr old every hour or so to nurse the baby!?! I can keep going. But you know. I'm beyond stressed, hormonal and my anxiety level is thru the roof. My pregnant friends are posting on Facebook their nursery photos THAT doesnt help! And picking their names ect. We can't even agree on a name! Our crib is in storage. No room. Our pak n play is in storage, no room! I've tried to talk with him, were doing counseling and he just won't budge. He's too afraid to move out of their house and move on. Renting is out the question, he says "it's a waste of money and it does nothing for our finances". That's just half the iceberg. 😩😩😭😡😤.......done....for now....