Update...
Hi ladies I'm back trying AGAIN ?. I just wanted to update you all to what is new and happening on my ttc front. After my mc in July I have given up on my own eggs. I did find out that my lo was a Boy, although I was sure I was having a girl. I am beyond thrilled I had a son ?and I am still working on his name. He had Trisomy 18 and they said there is a 1% chance that would happen again but I am done trying that way.
Yellow all scan are going perfectly and they are growing like lil weeds, love seeing them so much. I don't think I told you last time that I had to do an emergency cerclage at 18 weeks. It is holding up but the skin around it is thinning out so I'm on modified bed rest for the duration. I have been off work on medical leave since 17 weeks. I am 26 weeks preggers on wed and so beside myself that I came this far. They are giving me steroid shots this week just in case they pop out early but I don't expect them to make an appearance anytime soon. They certainly are kicking me tons. Baby A will definitely be a good soccer player they way he/she is kicking me lol
So glad we had a chance to reconnect.
Wow yellow it's been forever since we chatted. Congrats on lil Bub turning 1. I'm sure it's bitter sweet for you. Such a fun age.
A lot has happened with me. My first scan showed twins!!! My second scan at 11 weeks showed two babies growing on target. My NT scan showed them showing perfectly! I feel so blessed. I have my 20 week scan coming up on after March 26th and cannot wait to see them again. I am soooo in love with them and shopping is a blast. Keep in touch and I will try and pop on here more often.
Yellow I'm getting my bloods done tomorrow and then scan on the 27 of Dec and second scan on 11 of Jan. cannot wait to see how many.
Sorry for the delay ladies. I'm still here in beautiful Barbados and have completely fallen in love with this place. My gf and I are having the time of our lives.
My transfer was last Monday and I had two 5 day blastocyst put in. I feel pregnant and believe it worked but haven't poas yet (waiting for Monday).
I will update again next week. I highly recommend the fertility clinic down here they are SO amazing.
Thanks ladies, not too much longer now 1 month 21 days haha. Just bought my flight today and booking the hotel in the next two days. How exciting.
Hoping that sounds just perfect. I'm a firm believer in holistic health and the whole aspect of looking after the mind and body gives this a whole new meaning, almost takes the medicinal aspect away and gives your body a chance to do what it IS going to do! Please please keep us posted!!
Thanks Liz I keep saying Nov can't come soon enough. I have my gf working on flights so I will let you know if a meet will be possible fx.
Thank you Smox. I am so thrilled you have your new lo... You definitely deserve it.
Awe thanks Skap, the nursery colour turned out so pretty. It will be amazing to coordinate with other girl or boy colours (or both lol). I will keep everyone updated on Barbados. Wish Nov was here now haha.
Thanks ladies I appreciate your support and yes they will implant 2 blastocysts, can't wait until Nov.
A few months ago I found the perfect hue of green for the nursery so today I thought I would paint it anyway in anticipation of my lo coming. It turned out so pretty.
Omg im so sorry hun. I dont check here much so didnt see you mc'd again. Poor little man. Im sure you will come up with the perfect name for him. Barbados seems amazing and I agree with the de stress environment and dont doubt that that contributes to their success. Good luck babe!!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
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My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
Starting TWW. Anyone else?
I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.
Wow wow wooooow! Progress indeed, and you will appreciate every step! So I've just seen 5 weeks have passed since this post so you're now 31 weeks?!?! (I need to come on here more often!!!) so how are the three of you doing now?
Sorry to hear you needed the stitch, but also really pleased you had intervention at the right time! Can't wait to hear how you are getting on!!
My lo is 16 months now and hubby and I have decided to tcc again!!! I'm still breast feeding, so that'll hinder ovulation plus I have pcos and lo was a fertility baby! We can only try and remember we have our blessing rainbow baby if we aren't successful!
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