I need advice. Relationship advice from someone who isnt related to me. ☹ I think im about to do something really hard…

What’s going on mama?

@dontspankme i think im going to leave my girls dad. But idk how to do it with his temper. I feel like its never going to work between us all we do it fight im always being acussed of cheating its been 5yrs of this and i feel like im ready to let go. But i have no job no money what so ever if i leave him im leaving my fincial support.

@ppb14pj16, oh I’m sorry. Do you have any family support? Anybody to help out while you get on your own 2 feet.

@dontspankme no. But ive told him if we split up i am going to want childs support to help me out with the kids but i know he'd be so mad that i called it off he wouldnt.

@ppb14pj16, ofocurse and you should get child’s support. Start looking for jobs and places you can take your kids too when it’s the right time. Or better yet kick his ass out! 5 years going through that must be exhausting but it’s time to stand up for yourself and your kids. Have you saved up anything secretly? Like rainy day money?

@dontspankme no i have nothing i go donate plasma thats about it but rhat goes to little stuff here and there. And it'd be him leavinf this is my place under my name.

@ppb14pj16, make a plan... go to child support office and apply for it, you can apply for housing as well, go to closest DHS office, they should be able to help you.

@ppb14pj16, you can start searching for jobs like waitress, customer service, places like where they hire you quicker.

@ppb14pj16, yes girl!!! If you don’t think it would work out between you two then let him go on his merry way. But don’t stress too much about your financial situation without him. File the paper work for child support and try to find work somewhere even if it’s a part time job. You can do it. You’re stronger than you think. ❤️

Thanks

@dontspankme im gonna have to. Ive put up with it for 5yrs im not inlove with him anymore..

@ppb14pj16, you got this! Wishing you the best.

@dontspankme thanks so much

Mind if I message you?

Personally, I would start preparing now. Get a job, start saving up a little. Apply for state help and then child support. Then let him know he has 10-30 days to move out. You have to give atleast 7 days.

Thanks ladies.. ☹ its going to be hard.