Maybe I'm petty,but I called off my baby shower today.as my MIL was planning it and I requested politely she not invite a couple of her relatives,they were very very rude towards me the last time I saw them and hardly ever talk to them as is. I get it the moreyou invite the more you get, but I don't feel I have to surround myself with people who disrespect me and include people like that in my son's life.