My husband my husband 🤦🏽 ♀ called out of work last night when he got home because he was tired... mind you he was off…

@mitiacarolina3, you can always see a therapist yourself to see if you can find ways to balance your life and take care of yourself since you are so tired and stressed. As for your husband, it sounds like you have realized that you can’t make him change so do what you gotta do

@tacos4lyfe, I asked him about therapy but he doesn’t see a problem... he thinks he’s changed and doing better but I told him not really since my body is about to give out on me from being overly tired and stress

Just read the comments and I change my mind... It’s not easy to leave a marriage when you have kids for sure and I’m not saying you should but clearly threatening to leave is useless. Maybe you can talk to a family therapist for some more guidance.

I don’t think you need to leave him quite yet... but you do need to let him know if things continue to go how they go then you might as well be single because you already are a single parent. He does sound very immature to call out of work for being tired. That’s ridiculous. If only moms could call out when they are tired...

Know what rhymes with tired? FIRED!!! That’s awful he calls out so much for lame excuses

@thisisfeeney, very true

@mitiacarolina3, your child will see you as they grow. They will see how unhappy you are. Kids are more receptive than you think. It will do more harm to stay in an unhappy marriage for the kids than to just get a divorce. If he doesn’t want to try don’t make him. You’re not his parent.

@thisisfeeney, it’s honestly to the point where I don’t have any expectations for him to be a good father or husband and I just ignore him most of the time or I treat him like a roommate I occasionally sleep with 🤷🏽‍♀️

@mitiacarolina3, but don’t you realize? You’re only going to resent him more. You going to become more and more angry. That is more of a dysfunctional home life then separated parents.

@thisisfeeney, I left him before back in ‘14 for 7 months and when I came back he was a sweetheart. But now I think he thinks just because a baby is actually here, I won’t leave him again... I left the first time when I was 16 weeks pregnant with our first child but ended up having a miscarriage. So now I guess the main reason I’m staying is because I want Zach to know his father unlike my husband who doesn’t know his... I’m making a sacrifice for the upbringing of my child but it’s driving me insane

@mitiacarolina3, then follow through. Or at least separate. You’ll

Only grow to resent him more over time.

@thisisfeeney, oh I have plenty of times and as soon as I do he does what he’s supposed to do for a couple of days then it goes right back to the same old things

@mitiacarolina3, seriously. Threaten with divorce. You deserve better. And if he can’t be that better for you then so be it. Why continue to be miserable? He obviously doesn’t give a shit about you and your child.

Ughhh I just went in Zach room because he woke up... this man done put my baby in his bed upside down... his bed has a top part that curves so he doesn’t roll out in his sleep and my lazy sorry husband put Zach in the wrong way... instead of him tiring on the light to put him in correctly he just decided to do it in the dark 🤦🏽‍♀️

@mitiacarolina3, then you haven’t really tried. I got tired of my partners shit. I left him. Told him he needed to get his shit together. And he did and we are trying again. So far so good. He needs to realize there are consequences to his actions. Don’t let him make excuses and then drop it.

@mamabird228, I’ve tried. He just makes excuses

@mamabird228, he’s 26 about to be 27 in September

@mamabird228, he told them he was sick... oh and he called out on Sunday too