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Tia Smith
mitiacarolina3
Tia Smith·Мама сына (7 лет)
My husband my husband 🤦🏽‍♀️ called out of work last night when he got home because he was tired... mind you he was off from both jobs Tuesday and had enough energy to spend all day rewiring his system in the trunk and didn’t get home from dudes house until 5 in the morning.... slept from 4:30 until 1 this morning... went into the kitchen to eat and go on YouTube... around this time Zach woke up to eat and get the rest of his energy out... so I told my husband to wear him out and put him back to sleep... he brings him into our room, lays him on the bed with the phone in front of both of them, proceeds to lay down and then starts snoring... I come in here and tell him to wake up and put Zach to sleep... he’s response: “he doesn’t like it when I put him to sleep”.... so we go back and forth with me trying to keep my husband awake long enough to try to put our child to sleep... he ended up putting Zach in his car seat to rock him but ended up dozing off himself and everytime I looked over at him he was looking at me as if to say can I take over because he didn’t want to do it... uhhh NOPE!!! I made him sit there until Zach fell asleep and then made him put him in his room... I refuse to be a single parent when it’s two of us in the same house. Like come on dude, you slept for 9 hours... while I had to get up and clean and wash up Zach for bedtime then put him to sleep the first time... it’s not fair
31.05.2018
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little_mommy_of_3
Little Mommy ·Мама троих детей
@mitiacarolina3, you can always see a therapist yourself to see if you can find ways to balance your life and take care of yourself since you are so tired and stressed. As for your husband, it sounds like you have realized that you can’t make him change so do what you gotta do
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mitiacarolina3
Tia Smith·Мама сына (7 лет)
@tacos4lyfe, I asked him about therapy but he doesn’t see a problem... he thinks he’s changed and doing better but I told him not really since my body is about to give out on me from being overly tired and stress
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little_mommy_of_3
Little Mommy ·Мама троих детей
Just read the comments and I change my mind... It’s not easy to leave a marriage when you have kids for sure and I’m not saying you should but clearly threatening to leave is useless. Maybe you can talk to a family therapist for some more guidance.
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little_mommy_of_3
Little Mommy ·Мама троих детей
I don’t think you need to leave him quite yet... but you do need to let him know if things continue to go how they go then you might as well be single because you already are a single parent. He does sound very immature to call out of work for being tired. That’s ridiculous. If only moms could call out when they are tired...
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kbbaybee16
Know what rhymes with tired? FIRED!!! That’s awful he calls out so much for lame excuses
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mitiacarolina3
Tia Smith·Мама сына (7 лет)
@thisisfeeney, very true
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feeneythepotstirrer
Thisisfeeney·Мама двоих (8 лет, 10 лет)
@mitiacarolina3, your child will see you as they grow. They will see how unhappy you are. Kids are more receptive than you think. It will do more harm to stay in an unhappy marriage for the kids than to just get a divorce. If he doesn’t want to try don’t make him. You’re not his parent.
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mitiacarolina3
Tia Smith·Мама сына (7 лет)
@thisisfeeney, it’s honestly to the point where I don’t have any expectations for him to be a good father or husband and I just ignore him most of the time or I treat him like a roommate I occasionally sleep with 🤷🏽‍♀️
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feeneythepotstirrer
Thisisfeeney·Мама двоих (8 лет, 10 лет)
@mitiacarolina3, but don’t you realize? You’re only going to resent him more. You going to become more and more angry. That is more of a dysfunctional home life then separated parents.
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mitiacarolina3
Tia Smith·Мама сына (7 лет)
@thisisfeeney, I left him before back in ‘14 for 7 months and when I came back he was a sweetheart. But now I think he thinks just because a baby is actually here, I won’t leave him again... I left the first time when I was 16 weeks pregnant with our first child but ended up having a miscarriage. So now I guess the main reason I’m staying is because I want Zach to know his father unlike my husband who doesn’t know his... I’m making a sacrifice for the upbringing of my child but it’s driving me insane
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feeneythepotstirrer
Thisisfeeney·Мама двоих (8 лет, 10 лет)
@mitiacarolina3, then follow through. Or at least separate. You’ll
Only grow to resent him more over time.
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mitiacarolina3
Tia Smith·Мама сына (7 лет)
@thisisfeeney, oh I have plenty of times and as soon as I do he does what he’s supposed to do for a couple of days then it goes right back to the same old things
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feeneythepotstirrer
Thisisfeeney·Мама двоих (8 лет, 10 лет)
@mitiacarolina3, seriously. Threaten with divorce. You deserve better. And if he can’t be that better for you then so be it. Why continue to be miserable? He obviously doesn’t give a shit about you and your child.
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mitiacarolina3
Tia Smith·Мама сына (7 лет)
Ughhh I just went in Zach room because he woke up... this man done put my baby in his bed upside down... his bed has a top part that curves so he doesn’t roll out in his sleep and my lazy sorry husband put Zach in the wrong way... instead of him tiring on the light to put him in correctly he just decided to do it in the dark 🤦🏽‍♀️
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feeneythepotstirrer
Thisisfeeney·Мама двоих (8 лет, 10 лет)
@mitiacarolina3, then you haven’t really tried. I got tired of my partners shit. I left him. Told him he needed to get his shit together. And he did and we are trying again. So far so good. He needs to realize there are consequences to his actions. Don’t let him make excuses and then drop it.
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mitiacarolina3
Tia Smith·Мама сына (7 лет)
@mamabird228, I’ve tried. He just makes excuses
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mitiacarolina3
Tia Smith·Мама сына (7 лет)
@mamabird228, he’s 26 about to be 27 in September
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mitiacarolina3
Tia Smith·Мама сына (7 лет)
@mamabird228, he told them he was sick... oh and he called out on Sunday too
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