So my unborn baby’s dad left as soon as I told him about being pregnant. He won’t talk to me at all. I’ve asked him…

Carry on. If he isn't gonna be there then you just have to step up as her mother and do what you gotta do, I know it's heartbreaking but this is a decision you've gotta make for her. If it's starting out like this do you think he'll be stable enough to be in her life when she's born? More then likely, no

@sjo1, he has 3 other kids. I sometimes wonder if he left his 2 baby mamas when they told him. He hasn’t been to any of the appointments or anything.

@mommyof3. if I was you I wouldn't count on him in any way. This is a fragile time in your life and if he's able to just leave you that says alot about him

@sjo1, I agree! It just sucks. We were together for a year and a month, and he just bounced. It’s really hard.

@mommyof3. I'm sure it hurts! I'm sorry girl. Think of your unborn baby tho

I would just stop. And decide if you are going to put him on the birth certificate and go thru the state for custody and support, or not and don't give him any rights unless he fights for them with a DNA test that he will have to pay for.

I’m sorry he isn’t stepping up :( it sounds like he doesn’t want to be responsible for the child you created together. He doesn’t deserve your time or energy if he’s not mature enough to be there for you during pregnancy. As hard as it is emotionally, it’s probably best to move on and try to get as much support from family, friends, or even a local mommy support group. 💗

@ashbrd, I’ve lost a lot of family because of this. I have two friends left. And this is the only mommy group I rely on. @melissa_luv228, I’m not gonna update him on anything. I told him it was in his best interest to be at the hospital while I’m in labor and delivering her. He shows, I’ll add him, and still take him to court. He doesn’t show he’s not going on the certificate, and we will still go to court and he can pay for DNA.

Save all of your attempts as evidence when y’all go to court.

@mommynmotion, they are all saved!! 😁

@mommyof3., your precious thing dont put your heart out on the line any more than you already have just focus on baby and getting yourself ready for her arrival and care. I recommend try your hardest not to be bitter bc it is going to hurt like hell when he comes up to you and her down the line wanting to step up and you have to make the healthiest decision for your family.

@mommynmotion, my boys dad left. Now this one. It sucks.

@mommyof3., I know it does sweet girl if he stepped up with your two boys maybe he’ll come to his senses maybe he is just stressed

@mommynmotion, well I have two baby daddy’s. My boys are with one. And my girl is with another.

Took two to get where you are live. Sounds like DNA proof for child support help and it takes a real man to be a daddy any pos can be a father

@mommyof3. I went through the same thing, my kids dad also walked out of this unborn baby (and my 2 others) once I told him ..he begged me to abort I quickly said NO! he also has 2 baby mommas one is his wife but he literally walked out of all his 6 kid's life and he's living the "good" life...i'm used to him walking in and out he wants nothing to do with my kids I choose to drop him and continue pregnancy without him.... Don't let your baby dad bring you down during this pregnancy you got this momma straighten that crown and proceed it's not easy at first but we are strong woman and can over come anything 💜💜💜💜

@justlynn, men just suck! Because of them, females have the title “whore.”

Put his ain’t shit ass on child support 😊

@michellecolbert92, girl trust. This baby comes out, I’ll be filling out that paper work. 💪🏼

Definetly child support time

@mommyof3., understandable, but I meant a mommy group that isn’t an app. Making real connections in person. It may help you out. Or, try to seek counseling to talk to someone who can listen and give you professional advice. There are places that may do for free if you do your research and willing to help yourself during what sounds like a stressful time for you. Good luck. 👍