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VaNessa Pacheco
VaNessa Pacheco
Мама двоих (5 лет, 12 лет), ждёт третьего

First prenatal appt gone wrong

First prenatal appt gone wrong

So on Wednesday I had my registration appointment. I set up my Dr and all that fun stuff. Well to do an official dating scan the dr attempted to do ultrasound in the office (with the portable ultrasound machine) she had it barely inserted as I normally have pressure with a vaginal ultrasound and I had nothing. She says I don’t see anything. No sac, no baby. Your uterus is empty. (History of ectopic here) So I’m freaking out. And then she starts questioning me. R u sure u haven’t bled? R u sure no spotting? Like really? Had I, I would’ve been in ER not waiting for my appt. I’m a mess by this time. Then she goes on to say oh u must be super constipated, how long has it been since u had a bowel cause you are blocked up. Ummm I’m not constipated. In fact I went this morning (day of scan) and I hadn’t eaten anything in 12hrs so that’s impossible. So I’m questioning what she is even looking at. I’m sent to radiology, right away the girl says oh baby is active, moving arms and legs & flipping side to side, heartbeat of 166 (gender guesses welcome), healthy! In my uterus!!!!! So because of that DUMB “Doctor” I wasn’t able to get a picture of my baby this week! ?

Transgender children So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be…

Transgender children So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are your thoughts on the matter? Do u think the parents are behind this? Idk because I haven't met the parents or children. I just think at 5 it's very young for children to really understand. What do u ladies think?

So I had my baby at 12:46am but I’m asking for prayers or any good vibes sent my baby & my way. I had to have an…

So I had my baby at 12:46am but I’m asking for prayers or any good vibes sent my baby & my way. I had to have an emergency csection (never had one before either so still freaking out that I had one) because my placenta abrupted & now they transferred my baby to another hospital to give him care that this hospital doesn’t provide since he can not breathe on his own and he is going to be getting blood transfusions as well & they are saying it can go either way for my baby and I’m literally heartbroken and had no where to let out this except to you mommies on here that have been so helpful and supportive and positive to me.. I’m sharing a picture of him but he is hooked up to machines.. please keep my baby in your good thoughts & that he’ll pull through.. the most traumatizing experience I’ve ever had & I’m so worried about my little baby..