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Ash B
Ash B
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co-dependent Anyone realize how much they've had to (or just in general I guess subconsciously?) Depended on their SOs…

co-dependent

Anyone realize how much they've had to (or just in general I guess subconsciously?) Depended on their SOs or DHs for everything, finances, housing (as in finding or keeping), food, anything basically your SO/DH handles everything bills etc. And how much they hate it now? I hate that he holds all the money and pretty much has the final say in what happens with it....I'm starting to see he can't handle it. Not only that I just hate how I don't know how to do adult things because I've let him handle it (met when I was 18 going on 19 he was 25 going on 26) all because I was scared...but due to letting him handle everything I feel like it's royally messed up my life and if I had just handled everything for us that maybe we wouldn't be in such a bad place currently....and idk how to talk to him about it idk how to initiate a change now after two years of allowing him to handle everything....help?

Would you consider this cheating? What would you do

Would you consider this cheating? What would you do I need advice from a neutral stand point. Genuine advice of what you would do. Ds had his tonsils out last night. For some reason my gut about dh was not good. At night I logged into his Snapchat and saw he was talking to an old friend who he had a thing with. Last thing I was able to see was him saying it was hard to not log into those pictures and she then said she couldn't answer the phone because she was with her husband. I texted dh and asked what pictures was it so hard for him to not look at and I guess he called her and they talked. And she supposedly came clean to me and said they would just talk and vent about what stresses them. Dh said the same thing and I guess the pictures were of them from a long time ago of them and other friends hanging out. Dh started crying saying he never meant anything that everything looked like the perfect crime but that there was nothing there. I have since kept my distance and told him to give me space. At the moment I don't want to see him. I believe what they said but I'm so hurt and I don't want to be the stupid person to believe everything.

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?