Trying so hard ?
I’m trying so hard to enjoy this pregnancy and I just can’t. I was ttc this baby but I’m so miserable!!! I’m sick constantly and now my husband is working away longer (16days away) and I just can’t handle it. I have a 5yr old and a 2 yr old and I’m a SAHM and they need my attention constantly and I just can’t do it !! I just want to scream and cry because no one understands how hard this is! The other day, I had to go to the hospital to get fluids and there I go, with my kids sitting there. I don’t know what to do anymore ?
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Thanks for the encouraging words, ladies. My only support system is my mom and my father in law at the moment and they’re both super busy. My FIL just had surgery and is also taking care of my preemie nephew. My mom, takes care of my grandmother who really takes up all my moms time. She wants to help but my grandma makes it very hard for her to come and help me out. My grandma said I should’ve known what I got myself into when I got pregnant :( it was sooooo mean to hear but I keep telling myself that she’s old and she doesn’t know what she’s talking about lol
My son is in kinder and that does help a lot.
I just got on diclegis and that doesn’t seem to help too much. I just hope this 1st trimester goes by faster !
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