I can’t keep it to myself anymore & I have no one to talk to about it except you guys so I’m unloading it here.. but I just made my appointment to start the process to be checked for bladder cancer. & im obviously horrified. For as long as I’ve had my problems, if it’s been cancer the whole time then I fear the absolute worst which is that it’s untreatable now. I can’t leave my babies. I can not do that. They need me. & even without it being worst case scenario, I’m terrified just to hear those words leave their mouth & then explain the “treatment plan” 😰 I know I’m way ahead of myself because for all I know they’re gonna tell me ive got some simple issue that some daily meds or something can help.. but once the seed is planted, it’s hard not to feed into it & continue thinking about it. I’m just freaking out guys & I can’t tell anyone because I’m not gonna lay that on my family or anyone when I don’t know anything. So I just gotta get my thoughts out SOMEWHERE.
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That’s definitely heavy shit.
I would go to the ER and let them know your urinating blood and the other symptoms. Bloodwork needs to be done ASAP. My husband has blood cancer and the symptom that finally sent him into the ER was bleeding. Stressing doesn’t change anything except your mentality. 💓 Everyday is a gift and anyone of us could go at anytime. You never know. Try to stay positive. My inbox is open if you need a ear.
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@_dezzy, that’s what I was worried about but if it’s not too bad that makes me feel better lol. Is it much worse then peeing after childbirth? Lol. But thank you💕💜
@coffeebean, oh the after math from child birth is waaaay worse lol. No problem girly ❤️
Oh no I’m sorry girl. I hope everything turns out okay for you. Keep us updated ♥️
I agree with the other ladies about just going to the ER rather than waiting for your appointment. They can start blood work and other testing immediately. At least that way you're not freaking out for the next few weeks. Fingers crossed for you that everything is fine and theres a simple explanation and treatment. 💕
@coffeebean I completely understand that. I had a ton of health problems after my last baby and was constantly in the hospital. But your health is very important and everything else should be put on the back burner right now. I know working and income is very important but its just one day. You and your husband should make the sacrifice for your health. If you plan to go into the ER very early, like 6 or 7 in the morning, you might even be home by noon
@luna_bear another option is to go in after you put the kids to bed at night. Not ideal bc you'll be there until the middle of the night. But the ER is quiet at that time and you'll be able to get some naps in while there
@luna_bear, yeah that’s definitely true. Maybe I’ll talk to him tonight & see if we can work something out.
That’s definitely heavy shit.
I would go to the ER and let them know your urinating blood and the other symptoms. Bloodwork needs to be done ASAP. My husband has blood cancer and the symptom that finally sent him into the ER was bleeding. Stressing doesn’t change anything except your mentality. 💓 Everyday is a gift and anyone of us could go at anytime. You never know. Try to stay positive. My inbox is open if you need a ear.
Thank you so much🖤💕 I appreciate you & your advice!! & I have thought about going to the hospital but it’s hard with the kids & my husband working to be able to actually go. So a doctors appt was the next best thing 😕
@coffeebean, that’s what held my husband back. He’s already in a wheelchair and we have 5 kids at home still. At the time my 4th was my youngest at 2 months old...
His white blood count was over 300,000 which they thought was a malfunction. If he didn’t go he would have ended up having a heart attack or stroke and died. Please consider getting in sooner.. Time truly is of the essence.
I am so sorry you’re going through this, I’ll keep you in my thoughts and I am sending positive vibes. If you ever need to talk I am a message away 💜
I'm praying for you! I'm so sorry your going through this! Here if u need to talk💕
Hopefully everything turns out fine. It’s does sound scary and stressful But we’re all here for you. When’s your appointment to get it checked?
Thanks babe🖤 & unfortunately not until December 3rd. So I got a bit to wait but it’s better than ignoring it any longer so I’ll take it.
@coffeebean, i agree! It’s just the waiting game now. Keep us updated
We’re all here for you, love. I can only imagine what all is going through your mind right now & how much it’s stressing you out. 😕
Love you, babes!! Keep us updated!!
Thanks sis, I appreciate you & everyone on here so much 💕💜
Sending prayers for you. ❤ may I ask what makes you think it's cancer?
@scream.queen, because of me being a new patient they literally won’t do anything 😔 they have to “see me” first. Makes no sense. I told them exactly what my issue is & what I want checked for & it seemed like they were dismissing it like I’m just crazy. Which is fine, but when I go they better act a whole different way or we’re all gonna have a bad day cause I’m not leaving till I get the tests I need so I can know I’m fine.
@coffeebean, Ugh, that definitely sucks. 🙁 what about an urgent care? Like if your headache comes back and is bad enough go there and tell them all your other symptoms and they may send you for tests and bloodwork.
@scream.queen, that’s a really good idea I didn’t even think of trying that.
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I agree with the other ladies about just going to the ER rather than waiting for your appointment. They can start blood work and other testing immediately. At least that way you're not freaking out for the next few weeks. Fingers crossed for you that everything is fine and theres a simple explanation and treatment. 💕