what a day. I'm so done.

I'm so sorry you have to deal with this

Whoah.... Just... ?

Thanks. Divorce isn't an option for me. The only way out of this marriage is death. He's agreed to all my terms for us to stay together and work on it. He's going to get help. He's always had these mental problems but they've never gone this far. I'm really angry at him and at myself. I'm not sure if it will work I'm just willing to try. He chased me around crying the other night cause I flat out told him I was done. I've never seen a grown man hyperventilate from crying. It was awful seeing him like that.

You won't get any judgement from me; without going into it all I've forgiven things I never thought I would either. It's really hard to trust again though and there are days that I strongly question my decision to stay together. I'm sorry you were put in such a s*** situation in the first place. Wishing you the best!

I'm holding up alright I suppose. He has mental issues since his dad passed. We are trying to work things out. I don't condone cheating by any means. He has not slept with another woman since we've been together. I told him that he doesn't deserve my trust nor do i believe him when he says it's not him. In sending him for STI testing and he needs to go get mental help. We are living together but as it sits right now I'm not sure how into a relationship I am. I don't care how much shat I get from bb ladies about my decision to work on things either. He's a good man with problems. I don't know what possessed him to do this to me but I told him if he wants to keep our family together there's A LOT of restrictions. I'm putting a Key logger on his phone. They run in stealth and he won't be able to delete it nor am I telling him when I do finally delete it. It makes me feel like a psycho but it will help give me peace of mind and will show me if he's truly done doing what he did.

How are you holding up OP? You doing alright?

That's awful! I'm sorry op

Oh honey I'm sorry :( I'm glad you found out the truth. It's amazing of your sister to be so supportive; please take her up on one of her offers it will be such a huge help right now.

What a donkey he is!

I'm so sorry you are going through this. It's nice that she came to you and told you. I will be wishing for the best for you.

Yeah. We thought everything was sorted out cause he went back to work. We were golden. Then his job site gets shut down today and I find out he's cheating. We still have to figure out if I'm going to stay her and pick up half of the bulls or if I'm going to move back to medicine hat. My sister said she will drive the 9 hours to come get me if I come back. She doesn't want me to be this far away. She said shed either come live here with me cause the house has space or come get me and a few of mine and my daughters belongings and bring me back there.

Kudos to her for messaging you. And eff him ?. I'm sorry he's garbage and ruined his marriage

Op I'm so sorry! I remember you just talking about you guys getting into a new place and getting a little behind and his job was giving him the run around to know when he could actually go back to work. I hope the best for you in what ever decision you choose. Always remember this is your life and you will figure out what's best for you and your child. ❤

Show up at the hospital with her! So he sees you together!!

Dang

No. He's not into drugs. They randomly drug test at work.

Wow, this is a terrible situation but that is admirable of her to come to you when she didn't know the truth. She might kick him to the curb as well after this.

I'm sorry about your scum husband. ?

I know it must be scary but you are so brave.

Good to know.

I actually have tons of respect for her. She was all for hooking up with him then asked if he had any kids and and he said he had a daughter. She asked what his relationship with his baby momma was and he said we are on and off more than a hookers underwear. He told her we were just hooking up here and there. When he told her that she did no more research and found out we were married and instantly messaged me. I guess she's from a broken home that was ruined by this exact thing and she didn't want to do the same thing that destroyed her family.

I'm so sorry op. This is terrible.

? holy crap. I am so sorry, I would pack his bag and have the other woman come and get it. He can go home with her when he is released.

What a ??

Exactly what skate said! I'm so sorry op. Im mad for you.

Yeah. I'm pretty torn up about it. I'm also really worried about him because I obviously still love him. I've already told him I'm done. Him going to the hospital doesn't change that.

Good lord. I'm sorry mama. That's a lot. I'd probably be going to that hospital to bring him his things and tell him to find somewhere else to go when he gets discharged. What a peace of Shiz.