so I'm being induced so he will be here next week. he's measuring smaller . I'm 37 weeks but he's measuring 35 weeks . 😔 I'm not ready for him yet . he doesn't even have his bed yet. so that means he's going to be a preemie , I hope he doesn't stay in the nicu. on top of all that went on today smh. you know he had the nerve to call me a failure ? pssh.
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@monilovesautumn, Having faith can help push the fear out, that's what I try to do
they are pretty good with kids . my daughter always get treated good there. so , I'm crossing my fingers . I have faith. @rebcamdot
@monilovesautumn, I'm high risk and delivering and being induced to deliver early at UCSF, the UC hospitals are pretty amazing. I'm sure you and your baby will be well taken care of where you are too ❤️
thank you , yes he's 5lb , 7 oz . now . so by next week he will be most likely 6lb something .
because I'm high risk and I guess they want to take him out before they fear something is wrong . he's been measuring small for awhile now . so , they just want to ensure he's OK . which is fine because I rather have him now and be safe then keep him in and something happens . I'm seeing a specialist so I know he know what's right . he's going to tell my OB this today . because I said him tomorrow. @aleisha94 , @shortizzie , thank you I really hope so I'm scared because I never been induced so idk what to expect . @floress_j , I am ready court. I was just hoping that my water was to burst on its own. not them popping it , I hope he will be OK to go home with me @mrsglover21 , @rebcamdot well I believe you because my daughter had two surgeries and those nurses in the picu were so damn awesome matter fact that whole hospital was awesome!! I loved UCLA in California . if I was still out there I would deliver there .
It's not your fault, love. Both my babies measured small. I was induced at 38 weeks with my daughter. My doc said she would thrive better outside of my body and she did. She was perfect. 5lb 5 oz. I'll keep you in my prayers :)
thank you hunny. @sarahemccormick my kids father told me I'm a failure , he told me the reason the baby doesn't have what he needs is because I didn't buy it. he made more than when I was working. almost 15 an hour . I was only making 11 . he hasn't brought him ANYTHING. I'm 9 months and I don't have everything I need . thank god for people on here . or I wouldn't have what I have now
why do they want to take him out early if he's smaller?
Omg love no... But i know you ready to see him @monilovesautumn
@monilovesautumn, You're not a failure, sometimes things happen and they're outside of our control. If he does end up in the NICU, know that he'll be well taken care of, those nurses are amazing! Prayers ❤️
When you're full term at 40 weeks he will be measuring at 38. Birth before 37 weeks is premature.. he will be fine & so will you 💕 @monilovesautumn
Im trying to figure out what is going to happen with me since I'm 37 weeks and my daughter is measuring 35 why don't they just let him stay in instead of inducing
ultrasound . im high risk so I'm seen by a specialist . he said hr was going to fax that to my OB. @aleisha94
because the baby is 2 weeks smaller than he supposed to be .
Did they do a ultrasound and seen he was measuring small or just measured your stomach?
omg girl, Im so sorry!! But please know, you are NOT a failure. You are beautifully and wonderfully made and the Lord has given you a huge blessing! You are doing the best you can and are doing a great job at it. And the baby will be fine ☺ Even though he is measuring small, you are still term. Hang in there love, you have my prayers xo
I know he will be fine . I just hope I will be
your not a failure mama , things are out of our control sometime . your Prince will be just fine .. & everything will fall into place ,. dont let anyone get you down
So my husband still thinks our son isn't his because he doesn't look like him😒 he's barley almost 2 weeks old he doesn't look like anyone yet fool!
He's estimated to be measuring @ 6 pounds....I almost damn fainted !! I'm measuring @ 35 weeks n 2 days.
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How long are your husbands or SO getting off for paternity leave? My husband is only getting 1 week off. Then he leaves again. He works in the oilfields so he's always gone. I'm so upset it can't be longer. I'm more than likely having another c-section so it's going to be hard recovering plus handling a newborn and two year old. Makes me sad ?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
that's all I can do . I'm already are registered. no turning back now