Another month goes by...
I feel like time is just passing and we are getting nowhere. Failed FET in July, failed IVF in Oct, Failed IUI in Nov & this month's IUI was a waste too. I've now read that clomid can give you false positive opk's. Which is what I think happened to me & I actually just ovulated yesterday. DH has left on a ski trip and there was no time to BD either. Basically another wasted month. I'm sure I'll have to take next month off due to cysts again. The frustration is REAL!?
Thank you usound! I'm still going, lol. Hope your pregnancy is going well! Can't wait to see what you're having!
I'm sorry hun. For me too, trying for the second was rough. The first was too, took us four transfers, but for the second, it was over a year until we finally thought our luck was turning. For me, I just kept thinking, my daughter is another month older, she'll be "this old" when I have another if I get pregnant now. I felt the time crunch in a huge way! It just sucks. I know your luck is going to turn soon, it has to!
I'm sorry Amanda. I hope you are cyst free and can try again. I've been having a dull ache all morning, so thinking I definitely have another cyst.?
Thanks brandee. I planned on doing a trigger, but didn't because I started to surge early. I just talked to my dr and she feels confident that I was ovulating on the day of IUI because she could see my follicles filling with fluid. She said worst case scenario, if I did ovulate Sunday, that the way the sperm are "washed" they should live up to 72 hours.??
I'm a control freak! The whole IUI/IVF drives me crazy because I can't control anything. That's why I try to be organized! lol I hope your doctor can easy your mind. FX you did ovulate early this cycle and get your BFP. If not maybe think about using a trigger shot next time so you know you are going to ovulate.
Also you had 2 mature follicles I bet you did ovulate!
Thank you girls. I'm waiting for his call back. I know you all feel my frustration! I really feel like patience is my worst attribute & I am really being tested, lol.
I'm sorry you are going through all the disappointment. I just think it's so unfair we have to go through all the infertility issues. I keep thinking God bless so many woman that doesn't want any kids. I know a few of them that did abortion and after all they still get pregnant at no time if they want and we spend all that money, time, dreams, pain and heartbreaking. Anyways I just want you to know you are not alone. I did 1 iui and miscarriage and did 3 Ivf's that failed. I just gave up trying with my own eggs. I can't keep spending so much money because my heath insurance doesn't cover fertility treatment. I'm now considering donor eggs and if everything goes well I'll transfer sometime around April.
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
Starting TWW. Anyone else?
I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.
Sorry you're going through this ..hugs...hang in there