Ain't s*** !!! Lawd so I've finally cut all contact with my bd. apparently he's been telling his other bby mama that he…

Your child. It's up to you if you want your child to carry his last name. Where are the faithful men...

How do you know what she says is true?

Because the same thing he told her he done told me. She might be stretching it a little but I know some if it is true. I can feel it & tell by the way he act. But yea I'm sure part of it was exaggeration. Because she kinda sees this as a completion for some reason.

Its not wrong of you to do what your doing because she is a problem now and will be a problem in the future if you would have gotten back with him. Now is a new fresh start without him.

& he got caught with the shoe thing

Not at all. f*** em

My daughters father isn't in the picture and doesn't want to be so she will have my last name. But it's solely up to you and what you think is best

Nope!! My baby isn't having his last name

I'm right there with u girl!!

My bd did the same thing, can't wait to get that DNA thru child support soo he can look like te dumb ass he is!!!

What in the hell?! She is a lame dummy if she believes him. Ain't nobody got time to lie about a man that is they baby daddy when he ain't s*** ! Lol. Most women I know would lie and say a good guy is the dad not a jack ass. Lol.

Girl, I would tell the state that he not the father. He wouldn't have visitation! Smh.

That's what I'm starting to tell ppl now. & everybody knows us !! We live in murfreesboro in tn. Everybody knows everybody here !! I mean everybody. She lives in Memphis. But yea when ppl ask now I'm like he|she ain't got no daddy. Just a donor.

stacie.b12 I've been thinking about that lol. I was thinking about texting him and telling him I was messing with someone else and he's not the father. lol

No ur not wrong he is just as petty and ignorant as my BD my baby girl is definitely having my last name.. I understand why these guys lie im in the same position my bd have two babies due in the same year so basically he was messing with me and the other girl at the same time and lying about it yoo I feel so disgusted with myself at times like how I allow myself to be caught up with a disgrace of a man like this smh

That's how I be feeling. What was I thinking and how did I miss the signs.

@op I would. He ain't gonna change and you don't need him. And do you really want him if he's gonna deny your innocent baby? You can do bad all by yourself!

Yea I think that a lot. When my cousin told me he already had a bby on the way that should have been a big red flag for me. But I just had to give him a chance, I just had to trust him. & apparently he was messing with another girl as well who lives in Cali now & she just had a miscarriage by him in October then turn around & got his other current bby mama pregnant in November. ?. Dog. Smh. & her dumb ass probably still with him. Smh.

My question is love why did you get pregnant by him knowing he had another baby otw? I'm just wondering Bc I feel the signs were there and if he neglected her pregnant for you did you think he would be diff towards you? Men have a way with manipulating I know! My bd is the same way smh

I didn't know he was doing her any kind of way. The way he explained it was that "it just happened" they were never really together. But he did check on her. I asked him how their relationship was & he said that they were not together but he did check on her often because or the bby. I still didn't want to give him a chance but then decided too because he kept trying. I understand things happen because that's how my sister got pregnant. She wasn't with him, but he was there for the bby. Still is & they are still not together but there's no drama... Didn't even find out till after I got pregnant(which wasn't planned) that they were actually in a relationship & I guess trying to work on things & that he wasn't really doing her right , like not checking on her & stuff(her words). So I didn't intentionally get pregnant by him. It just happened. I wanted to get to know him more. He's been trying to get at me since high school so I finally decided to give him a chance. But yea it was a sign. Just overlooked it because I didn't know all the details at the time.