Ain't s*** !!!
Lawd so I've finally cut all contact with my bd. apparently he's been telling his other bby mama that he doesn't think my bby is his & also buying shoes for the bby & telling both of us that it's for our kids lol he's pathetic. Oh & there's so much more. But yes. He's gone. Goodbye. Bye bye. Lol. Ugh I hate this but I'm glad this all happened today because I was just about to give him another chance then she called and told me all this stuff. Oh & apparently they've been together this whole time & I'm a nobody !!! Lmaoooooooo. Lord !! Smh. I just pray. That's all I can do. Ima be okay & so will my bby. And I've decided not to give my bby his last name. Is that wrong of me ?? I don't think so but is it ?
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My question is love why did you get pregnant by him knowing he had another baby otw? I'm just wondering Bc I feel the signs were there and if he neglected her pregnant for you did you think he would be diff towards you? Men have a way with manipulating I know! My bd is the same way smh
Yea I think that a lot. When my cousin told me he already had a bby on the way that should have been a big red flag for me. But I just had to give him a chance, I just had to trust him. & apparently he was messing with another girl as well who lives in Cali now & she just had a miscarriage by him in October then turn around & got his other current bby mama pregnant in November. ?. Dog. Smh. & her dumb ass probably still with him. Smh.
No ur not wrong he is just as petty and ignorant as my BD my baby girl is definitely having my last name.. I understand why these guys lie im in the same position my bd have two babies due in the same year so basically he was messing with me and the other girl at the same time and lying about it yoo I feel so disgusted with myself at times like how I allow myself to be caught up with a disgrace of a man like this smh
That's what I'm starting to tell ppl now. & everybody knows us !! We live in murfreesboro in tn. Everybody knows everybody here !! I mean everybody. She lives in Memphis. But yea when ppl ask now I'm like he|she ain't got no daddy. Just a donor.
What in the hell?! She is a lame dummy if she believes him. Ain't nobody got time to lie about a man that is they baby daddy when he ain't s*** ! Lol. Most women I know would lie and say a good guy is the dad not a jack ass. Lol.
Girl, I would tell the state that he not the father. He wouldn't have visitation! Smh.
Because the same thing he told her he done told me. She might be stretching it a little but I know some if it is true. I can feel it & tell by the way he act. But yea I'm sure part of it was exaggeration. Because she kinda sees this as a completion for some reason.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Am I wrong for telling my Bd that because we not Married my baby don't have to have his last name? He really got mad and told me I was project n ignorant. Crazy part is I was thinking about giving my baby his middle and last name
so my mom was telling me I should give my son baby cereal at night because at night is when he wants to eat the most. I haven't done it yet but who thinks its okay I was thinking doing it when he's two months!??
I have no friends! ?
I have no actual proper friends! I never go on nights out cos I don't have friends to go with! It doesn't usually bother me but it's starting too! My oh is busy helping his friend move today and then tonight he's out at the boxing with his mates and out after! Rhys is at his dads so it's just me and Isabella! ??
My sweet baby girl gained her angel wings this morning. She was my best friend, my true love my everything. She was so happy and beautiful, I'm struggling to say good bye. Sleep tight princess, mummy and daddy love you very very much ❤️
I didn't know he was doing her any kind of way. The way he explained it was that "it just happened" they were never really together. But he did check on her. I asked him how their relationship was & he said that they were not together but he did check on her often because or the bby. I still didn't want to give him a chance but then decided too because he kept trying. I understand things happen because that's how my sister got pregnant. She wasn't with him, but he was there for the bby. Still is & they are still not together but there's no drama... Didn't even find out till after I got pregnant(which wasn't planned) that they were actually in a relationship & I guess trying to work on things & that he wasn't really doing her right , like not checking on her & stuff(her words). So I didn't intentionally get pregnant by him. It just happened. I wanted to get to know him more. He's been trying to get at me since high school so I finally decided to give him a chance. But yea it was a sign. Just overlooked it because I didn't know all the details at the time.