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texxie
Tex·Мама двоих (младенец)

exhausted

Anybody else having a hard time transitioning from one to two? I have a 4yo and a 3 week old. I'm up twice now at night, feeding the lo and it's for about an hour each time. Then when my 4yo wakes up, I have to be up all day and try to find some energy to keep her entertained. Plus it's just me with no help. I'm so exhausted :/

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texxie
Tex·Мама двоих (младенец)

@ash yeah it is HARD!!! Before I had my baby, I figured I was going to have to do it on my own and basically had it in my mind to do so. But actually doing it is So Hard. I get emotional a couple times a week just thinking about how alone I am and how my finances will drastically change. Plus I'm in the make too much for assistance but not enough to live comfortably category....meaning I have no clue how to pay for daycare. But I got a month to figure it out. Just got to keep pushing through the pain

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I have a 5 yo and 2 month old. It sucks same boat hun. But I have hell daddy is here. I couldn't imagine doing it alone! U need breaks at least emotional support. Your doing great tho. Just remember your toddler still loves you even tho u feel bad it will pass and he or she will understand

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texxie
Tex·Мама двоих (младенец)

@maru I've been including my toddler with everything bc I don't want her to feel left out. But there's only so much you can do. Sometimes I have to tell her to wait until I put baby to sleep and she doesn't like that

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Me too, I have a 3yo and a 6 weeks old, it’s hard. I don’t want to get out of bed in the morning?? and my toddler is soo jealous , it’s driving me crazy??

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texxie
Tex·Мама двоих (младенец)

I am the EXACT same way. My 4yo isn't used to me telling her to wait until I get baby settled or I can't play right now bc mommy haven't eaten all day and about to keel over. I know it's all about balance but when you're a single parent, balance goes out the window

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Me! I am also up about 2 and then 6 and then my 2 year old wakes up about 730, I am exhausted by then and am not always the nicest mom until I have coffee. Then I am back and forth between them all day. Some days I feel like a horrible mom all day because I am always letting down one of them. I often have to tell my toddler to wait for things or no I can’t play with you or let my newborn cry for a minute while I am getting a snack for my toddler. It’s exhausting but I’m trying to make the best of it, remember it’s temporary and I will probably miss it one day

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