Do not touch my dishware and do not get in my way.

My kitchen is my value, as that's how I make extra income. Like the office is his. He ruined 2 items cleaning them and that was the end of him in my kitchen.

He is reduced to plastics, silverware and plates when I need someone to do dishes.

He has house chores elsewhere

I didn't help all that much when he cooked for me, because I had moved in and I was still unfamiliar with his kitchen. Also he cooks professionally so I like to stay out of his way when he's in the kitchen

I do all the cooking & cleaning, but I only wash dishes once a day! Usually after breakfast or while my toddlers are napping.

Whoever cooks, the other usually cleans. It's not expected, we just try and do it. Dh likes to cook, so I usually clean.

I cook and I clean. ?

I just want to say that is amazing. SO and I used to have an agreement, whoever cooks the other does dishes. He always cooked so I always did cleanup. Now he works I'm the one who cooks, but he doesn't load the dishwasher right (he's melted several cups) so I just clean up. He sometimes helps get started by passing me dishes through the window between kitchen and dining room though.

I wish. I do all the cleaning. SO works from home, but I am a sahm, so he just expects me to everything. He occasionally cooks dinner (mainly if we BBQ) but I am the one to always clean up. I wish I had some help once in awhile.

I cook and I clean. Usually while my food is cooking, I wash dishes, sweep and pick up. Get mop ready. Stuff like that. Also my husband can't cook at all; the one time he tried he gave us food poisoning. Lol

No we do everything together. Well about everything.

I clean as I cook.

I cook , I clean, undo the laundry and fold it.

Some days when my husband isn't tired from work, hell make breakfast and ill do the dishes afterwards.

My husband works 12-14 per shift over nights.. I make sure his life is as easy as possible the way he does mine.

I'll clean while I cook. I can't stand leaving stuff in the sink before I go to bed. It makes me super anxious (my mom and grandma do the same thing).

I get frustrated if I wake up and find dishes in the sink and the counter top dirty from our roomie. Seriously brah, dishwasher was empty and has a magnet that says 'dirty' for a reason. ?

I hate cooking. But either way I don't mind cleaning up after. Doesn't matter who cooks.

I do the same as you Hun. Always will, when I cook I clean as I go so all that is left to clean is the dishes you eat off.

Whoever cooks, cleans in my house. I hate cleaning other people's mess. Heck, I hate cleaning my own mess. Luckily so doesn't mind cleaning after himself.

Whoever didn't cook has to help clean

I don't have an SO but with my kids, everyone has there job, they know what they do, dishes ,trash,wiping ,down everything, putting up food, even my 1 yr old help , mostly picking up one and putting in the trash, and everyone clapping lol but yes everyone had a part.

Btw before someone tries to say something about child labor laws lmao my older 3 are teens. Lol

@voodoo I do eat with family I'm just not home much. My only family is my dad since my mom is in another state. We invite my dad over for dinner a lot.

I usually cook and hubby cleans. Sometimes I'll do dishes while I'm cooking but not always

My husband doesn't clean ANYTHING. He also doesn't cook.

He works 80-100+ hours a week... Takes out the trash, does the outdoor work, fixes anything in the house that breaks, and holds the baby when I say "hold the baby". ? that's about it.

I clean while cooking lol my DH makes the biggest mess if he cooks but I wait until we finish eating before cleaning it up!

You don't eat with your family?

And I generally clean as I cook then dh finishes cleaning up while I bath and get the kids ready for bed

Me and my partner do that, it makes the process easier

I cook and clean. Im a SAHM and my DH works 3rd shift and sleeps all day. I cook, serve the food, rinse the dishes off, and set them in the sink. I wash the dishes/countertops when I can, whether it be right after dinner, or once DS goes to bed.

Yep, sounds like me and my husband. We work like that on all chores.

My husband does all the cooking. I will prep side dishes and such but he is the chef in our home. I can't cook. I put the dishes away and sometimes he does as well.

I cook and then clean when we are all done eating. My husband works really hard and has crappy hours so when he gets home I just want him to relax.

We don't really have set roles. Sometimes he cooks and cleans, often I clean after he cooks, etc. He almost always cleans if I cook. But nothing's set in stone really. Just depends on how we're feeling I guess.

I cook, then eat, then clean. But I don't have a SO so I guess idk how it'd be if I did lol

I cook and clean up 98% of the time. The tradeoff is, dh does all of the laundry. I can't complain.

When I was with bd and we lived together I did all of the cooking and he did the majority of the cleaning. Mostly because he sucks at cooking and I'm pretty good at it. And he is an obsessive neat freak and cleaning and organizing gives me anxiety attacks. It worked out nicely that way.

If husband is home and not working (rare) he washes up all the dishes if I cook. Vice versa too. When I'm home alone with the kids I wash my dishes as I go along so everything doesn't pile up afterwards.

I cook and clean most nights. SO works late so I usually have dinner made and kitchen cleaned up before he even gets home. If he cooks on the weekends, I still clean lol. I stay at home and pretty much do all the cleaning, which I don't mind at all. He works hard and I like to let him relax and spend time with dd as much as he can when he's at home.. It's what I works for us.

@victoria I always clean lol. I will literally find things to do to pre occupy myself. I actually deep cleaned the bathroom at my house today since I was waiting for my dad to take me to get a copy of DFs keys lol.

I clean while I cook. My husband never cooks or does dishes because he works nights. I can't relax until the dishes are done lol

I cook and clean most nights. My Dh does it a lot tho when I ask, but I'm fine with doing it because I like doing it my way anyways

I cook, he cleans!

Most nights when I cook my dh will wash what I used. He walks into the kitchen every night when I start dinner and asks if I need help with anything, he also does that when the food is done cooking. He will help serve plates, pass plates out, get drinks, whatever I'm in need of help with. When he cooks I will wash what he uses, but that's a rare event lol his cooking is usually on the BBQ

I cook and clean while DH takes care of the kids. I'm a SAHM and my husband works long days and only gets a few hours with our kids before bed so this works perfectly for us.

I'm the exact same way. If my daughter is occupied then I'm always doing something

I clean while I cook. Mostly wash dishes while my foods cooking. I cannot sit down and enjoy my food with a dirty kitchen. I can't even.

I cook. I clean. ( usually ss I'm cooking also) My DS helps clear the table and load the dishwasher.

Nope. We clean up together and eat together. Or if one is cooking the other deals with the kids. Dishes are easier than kids so whoever does one the other takes the other lol I don't know it also depends on how we are feeling the day we have had etc. fairness is not on the menu lol we try to help each other out instead of be fair. Neither of us were raised this way but this is how we choose to be and it works great for us!