Hey erica, hope you're going well with the opk's...have u had a positive yet? Haven't had a change in temp yet which is expected since I normally wouldn't have ovultd yet. I've actually had a bit of a meltdown over the last couple of days...all my miscarriage shock and sadness has come up in a big way :-(. I still feel pretty overwhelmed about losing my lo...it is just such a shock. After the last couple of days I realised that I'm prob not ready to go again yet so am going to wait until next month to ttc, which will be around new years. I would really love to still keep in contact with u if u r interested? Am sending all my sticky baby dust ur way this month ;-)

I had never done the temps or opks. I was going to try to take temps but I have been so sick the last few days my temp has been all out of wack. I'm going to go for the fun less stressful way of ttc which means bding as often as possible or like every other day works. I try really hard not to let my dh know how obsessed I am with getting pregnant again lol. I know how upset we both were when we lost our lo. And if I got a bfp for Christmas that would be the best present ever. He has a 15 yo dd and I have a 9 yo dd but this will be our first one together.

Yeah Bluebird this af has been a lot heavier than usual but I think today is the end of it then it's back to ttc for me. You are in my thought and prayers. Maybe we could stick together and be buddys. :-)

Big congrats Erica!!! It is such a relief when af comes back just to know everything is ok. 1st day of af is cd1. I have had cramps and much heavier flow than normal this af than for sure!!! Argh!! Pregnancy and miscarriage is such an intense experience!! Thinkin of u :-)

Ok so af finally came to see me. I had my d&c on 10/26 and here is af 11/26. I do gotta say I never really had af cramps but omg these cramps I'm having now are horrible. So now when she goes I am back to full blown ttc. Wouldn't a bfp be a wonderful Christmas present. So is today cd1?

@ bluebird

I can't wait for AF. We are definitely keen to start ttc straight away.

Congrats!! I had a d&c in July, af In August and I am now 13 weeks pregnant! Best of luck to you and lots of prayers for you!

I haven't been ttc, but I haven't not been trying lol. I decided to put it all in Gods hands. So in due time I will get my LO. I have a 9yo dd and we would love to have an addition to our family. My mc was a total shock and heartbreak but it gets a little easier everyday.

Big congrats futuremom!!! Ur story is very encouraging and hopeful. Look forward to hearing of your growing bump :-)

Tracka & Erica I'm sure good ol af is not far away!! Im finding it a bit more painful and crampy than usual but just have to trust that my body is taking care of everything. Are u both going to ttc after first af? I'm not sure whether to wait another cycle.

It was not harder for me. I had a mmc then d &c in September waited on first Af and then started ttc I am now 5 w3d pregnant. Best of luck to you! Sending lots of sticky baby dust!

Thats awesome. I also had a d&c on the 26th but I'm still waiting on af. Hopefully it will come soon.

Oooh.... Yay for you!! My d&c was the 25th so I hope I will follow suit soon...