My chart is becoming more up and sown instead of staying between two temps. I have no clue what it's doing, lol. This…

Goooo Steelers!!!! Yes let's all kiss and make up.

How about them steelers!!! Lmao maybe we should all take a hpt! Lots of hormones being throwed around in here geesh! Cant we all just get along?

Did you not put earlier "@Josie: too funny"? That's why I said I do not think it's funny. If you must know, I commented because you called someone out by name who I didn't think was rude, and you even said "no offence" while doing it which if you look at your comment from a few days ago you were complaining about people using that phrase to be rude. I don't like drama, but I hate when people have "rules" to judge others but conveniently forget about them when they need to be applied to their own behavior.

@makeupmom... im so confused here! Please point out what I've said that has rumbled you.... caiae im clueless (blonde) i've never ment to be ride to ANYONE here except one awhile back!! Thats been over with. I would never post anything or be rude to anyone if I had a problem I wouldn't comment or would send you a pm. So please let me know what your talking about. I give my opinions when I reply to post just like everyone else. And when someone gives false info I never call them out or tell them they are wrong I just reply with what I know yo be true. . Aot of women have fertility problems and like myself have already spent thousands of dollars and im very sincere about ttc and I WISH all I had to do to get pregnant was wean. Please nobody take that the wrong way it wasnt ment to be rude. Just how I feel at this point in my ttc journey. Ill be 38 next week and feel like im running out of time... plz send me a message with what has upset you.

I don't think its funny but that's your opinion, I already stated mine.

I agree with T- it's all in the wording. Angel has said quite a few things that have rubbed me the wrong way. I don't think it's intentional but it still comes off that way.

Whether she meant it that way or not I took the comment like she was measuring her sincerity with ttc.

And T there's nothing rude about you.

Shy, I read your posts and I don't think they were rude. You asked and acknowledged that your questions could be taken offensively but you were only asking out of curiosity.

Others have to be more careful about the things they say. A lot comes of judgmental and arrogant and because we all are reading, word choice is important.

I was not being rude i've spoke to salle a lot and was just passing what she has said. Thats what she has been posting saying all along I was just trying to fill shy in on what salle has been shooting for is ALL. I wasnt being mean nor was it ment to be rude in any way. Was just trying to tell in short form what she was charting for without making it a book. Sorry she took it rude or anyone else did.was trying to be helpful SHAME on me for trying to do so. Thank you josie!!! At least you didnt think I was rude. And furthermore never said she didnt want a child bad enough. I said I know how bad I MYSELF want one and I would choose to try and wean. She had stated MANY times how bad she is tired of being in limbo and wants af or O to just show up and she wants a sibling for her son. I feel bad for her cause of all this and if she was just charting to know what her body is doing then she wouldn't be getting so upset about not O'ing or no af.

I opened a can of worms with my inquisitive mind....

I like Sallee too... always thought she was super sweet but I guess I just made a mess of this.

Sallee, I truly am sorry and the last thing I meant was to make u feel unwanted.

My best friend got pregnant and is still nursing so I know its possible I just wasnt sure cause I know u hadnt had a ppaf yet. Sorry to upset anyone.

I am so mad I missed this. Sallee was one of the best! She was always positive and supportive. Wtf happened here? Smh.

I agree with SouthieMommy - you don't have to wean to get pregnant and most women (I read 90%) will get their period back before their child is 2 yo. So it doesn't matter if they still nurse till 3 or 4.

@Angel and shy, imo I don't think anyone was rude on the post till the comment before the one I am writing now.

Thats awesome southiemommy

You CAN get pregnant while breastfeeding so there is no need to wean. My son is 21 months and still nursing (all throughout the night even!) and I am 10 weeks pregnant. I got my first real PPAF at 11 months pp. (Had a warning period at 10 months pp) and I started ovulating the cycle after my first ppaf. I started charting at 14 months pp because I was actually getting fertile CM and I was using it for preventing pregnancy. I personally love charting I think it's fun and informative and I enjoy knowing what's going on with my body. If it wasn't for charting I wouldn't have known that I had a luteal phase defect and would not have been able to get pregnant when I wanted to as I knew to start taking a B complex to correct it. If she wants to chart till the cows come home that is her prerogative. No need to throw around who wants a baby and how bad. No need to make anyone feel bad or out of place. We all have our own lives and struggles and do things our own ways.

I didnt think you was rude shy. I myself have been wondering the same thing

So u think what I said was rude? I simply was curious. I dont think I said anything mean I just wasnt sure how to word what I was asking. I was wondering what she was expecting to figure out from her chart cause she posted it but I dont know how to comment on something if I dont know what ur asking.... u know what I mean?

Like sometimes ill post my chart and ask a question like "do u think I Od" or "how are my temps?"

I feel like I opened a can of worms... I was just being curious as to what she was wanting to see cause I was confused..... I didnt mean to make u feel unwanted at all hun!!!

@sallee please stay!!

Omg! No, Sallee. Please don't go. This is the first time today I've been able to catch up with all the ladies. Sorry, but I'm in a bit of shock right now. You belong here just as much as the rest of us and it would be a damn shame if you left!

You said a lot of things I say are hurtful. Can u please point them out to me. Cause I never mean to be.

I NEVER said you didnt want one bad enough hun I just said it all depends on how fast and bad you want a sibling and how long are you ok with spacing them out. Never ment to be hurtful at all I just hate to see you going thru all this and getting your hopes up everytime ur temp spikes or drops and then you get heartbroke. I cant wait to breastfeed a lo. And im on your side about letting him do it on his own. It just seems your putting stress on yourself right now. Not to mention the cost of opks and hpt that you have gone thru. Never ment to be hurtful and im sorry you took it that way. Its hard to know how to take someone thru a text without hearing them. And you misunderstand me. Never ment it that way. I was just asking if u was OK with waiting "if" it takes awhile and how close in age you wanted.. Im not a rude or mean person at all but if I WAS trying to be mean or hurtful, would have been be unmistakably known. Please accept my apology.....

And Angel I know you posted a while back stating that you didn't understand why anyone was upset with you and I told you prior comments hurt but I ignored them. Well it hurts today for you to say that I don't want a baby bad enough. I am a damn good mother and I'm not going to deprive my son. I'm not breastfeeding him for me, It's for him. A lot of things you say are extremely hurtful.

Feel free to PM me as well. I don't fit in here and my birth group mommies are where I should have gone for support in the first place. They made me feel a lot better. Lots of luck for tomorrow.

Lol, you'll be out of limbo land tomorrow and I can't wait! You're going to be a wonderful mommy. I'll keep checking in on you.

No please dont feel like that. I was just curious. I dont want to make u feel like u dont belong at all. Youre still ttc so u belong with us :)

I get nursing, I stopped at 9mos cause I got uncomfortable with my dd pulling off and playing with my nipples but I missed the comfort later.

I was just being curious to what u were expecting of ur chart lol

I plan to keep temping to make me feel like I'm doing something. My son is more important than a future sibling so I'm not in a rush to wean him. He's 14.5 months right now. I try to be an active part of this group but I think it's time for me to move on.

How old is your SO? I am still nursing my 25 month old DD. I don't temp but I chart, and check CM and position. I am all about self weaning. I say whatever your heart tells you. I do want a new baby and I hate when people ask me when I'm going to wean. I think its selfish of me to just pick a day and time to wean. If shes 3-5 years old and we are still waiting thats ok. Or if she is still nursing when I get pregnant I will tandem nurse if she is wanting. I believe things will turn out for the best. Good luck mama!

What if your son dont want to wean till he is 3-4 yrs old? Are you willing to wait that long to get back on track hun? I wish there was another way for it to happen faster without weaning. I hope you DO o soon or the vitex gets you leveled out.

She is hoping to get lucky and catch her first O and she ia taking vitex. I know if it was me and I was not willing to wean to get a baby I wouldn't even bother with tempting or charting till I got him weaned. And he is old enough for regular milk now so its juat depending on how bad you want a sibling for him. I myself want a baby BAD and would definitely try and wean. You will get that sibling you want and will be nursing a new baby.

I know ur just temping to see what ur body is doing but it looks like ur not Oing or going to get af anytime soon lol :\

How long are u going to keep temping? Are u going to keep ttc while nursing or stop till he weans or what? Im just curious. :)

I know u want him to self wean but I guess im just confused.

I hate seeing people in limbo so im just curious to what ur plan is.

If its to keep temping and tracking while nursing and hope eventually u O or if ur gonna stop ttc or stop nursing... sorry if this doesnt make sense lol

Curiosity killed the cat lol