did hubby go too
Did your hubby go with you to your very first dr visit?
My hubby went to every one with our daughter and has gone to everyone this time. Both pregnancies have been high risk. My daughter was born 2 yrs ago at 32 wks and our goal is at least 32 wks with our little boy. Its very special to have him with me. And yes he was in there when they did my pap and every week when they check my cerclage.
Last time I was pregnant, hubby didn't go to the first appt, which was also the first u/s. He figured no biggie he'd come to another one. We lost the baby 2 weeks later. So this time around he goes to every appt and it has been so special for him.
He thinks it's hilarious that he keeps getting very direct views of the pelvic exam though. At one point the dr had all the metal apparatus hanging out of me and dh kept referring to my "Terminator cooch" lol. He's also seen my cervix on a big-screen tv and watched the dr swab out a bunch of brown bloody goo. This kind of dedication is not for the faint of heart or sex lives in peril lol.
It's good to hear the options from everyone. My first prenatal (9 weeks) is tomorrow morning. They will have a Doppler to listen for a heartbeat but I know it may be too early. Have invited DH along just in case we can hear it - I want us to share that first together. Am feeling a little awkward that he'll be there for the pap part but I guess I will just have to get over that soon enough, eh?
I don't have my husband go ..I would rather him work more now so he can spend more time at home when the baby is here...plus I think we need all the money we can get get right now....but sometimes I do see husbands at the doc..but not all the time...it's whatever you can swing! Good luck😐😐😐😐
Where?
Where did you go for your honeymoon?
When did you guys go into labor after getting your membranes stripped ?
Did your hubby actually see your child exit the birth canal? Did it traumatize him?
Baby's weight..?
How much did your LO weigh at your last ultrasound & how many weeks were you?
My husbands 20th birthday is coming up! 💏🎉 🍻🍾💁🏻 I want to do something nice for him any ideas what you mommies did for your hubby? 😬
Dh has come to all of my apts so far..and is going to cone to the one next week...he wants to come and I'm glad bc I wouldn't want to see our son without him