my heart is broken Ok, only half broken, but ladies talk me down lol

I thought so. Lol

Like youre sitting here in some really horrible pain, but youd be willing to do it all over again, just to make me happy? Hes totally content with our family the way it is, but knows how much i love having babies. So it would totally be just for me.

I know men do it all the time, but not mine. ;) lol

Wow that's pretty romantic in a way ?

True love:

While at the height of his post-vasectomy pain, dh was comforting me, bc i was once again crying about no more babies.

He assured me he would go have a reversal if it would make me happy. ?

He DOES love me. Lol

????

After having dd I felt like I was done. Now that ds is 3 months old I can't say that I'm done. I keep saying things like "if we ever had a 3rd" ect.

I will be okay, and i also know its what is best, for me and for our family. It just really is the hardest realization to come to!!!

I could have 100 kids and still feel this way i think.

I'm sorry you're feeling sad, mama. Hang in there. I'm pregnant with my last and it's definitely bittersweet. I know it's what's best, but I can't commit to surgery yet. On one hand I feel glad to complete my family and focus on the future, but on the other hand I'm sad that I'll never have another squishy little newborn. I get how you feel.

I'm in the opposite boat! I'm begging DH to agree to a vasectomy or agreeing to me tying my tubes and he will not budge. Pregnancy & me do not go well together.

I'm sorry you're feeling this way though! ?

I think coming to realization this was your last baby is hard. I'm in a similar situation, kind of. We have three kids and have been trying for a fourth for nearly 5 years now. It's hard coming to terms that we want more, but that it might not be in our cards. I wish I would've cherished every newborn moment with my youngest that much more, but there was no way to predict the future and to know we'd deal with secondary infertility. I can't ever imagine saying I'm done

Oh, if reversal was an option, dh never would have agreed to it in the first place lol

I think its just going to be an emotional night at my house tonight. *sigh*