

MIL fridge😒
Soooo after living with my in-laws for almost 7months now I decided to clean out their nasty fridge and their almost broken stove. Since we'll be moving back to Texas in a few weeks.
My FIL & BIL both love the work I put in that I didn't have to do. But My MIL is mad I threw out her spoiled and outdated food.
Smh.
My husband was happy too.
I don't understand why she is pissed off about it 🤦🏾♀️ maybe she wants to live with rot, mold & dirt. Smh.
I would LOVE YOU IF my fridge was this bad and you cleaned it out!!! It looks amazing!
@annarizzo123 wow see that's messed up, I wouldn't even have him as a friend tbh. And had the nerve to get mad at you.
@icestorm1123, right and he posts on Facebook all the time about my brother sal who’s 18 but not me and my brother ages 27 and 26
@annarizzo123 it's not your job to try, it's the parent's job to put forth the effort, they are the parent, that crazy smh 🤦🏾♀️ that's a dumb excuse
@icestorm1123, in his eyes he thinks I don’t try but he’s my father and that’s a sorry excuse
@annarizzo123 wow that is messed up, he had no reason to get mad at all, he should feel guilty
@icestorm1123, my dad just never made an effort he had he nerve to get mad I didn’t say hi back in the super market one day I said seriously like I hardly know uou he only cares about his last child he had with another women sucks how we don’t ask for this type of life
@annarizzo123 I'm sorry to hear, I don't have my mother in my life either, she's a drug addict my father was abusive so I don't speak to him at all.
@icestorm1123, good for you for defending your family my dad was never there my mom treated me bad as a child she’s nice to me now but I cut off all ties with her she hardly made an effort to be in my kids lives she asked why I never drove to her but she never drove to me either
@annarizzo123 yeah it is hard for him, he can't stand being in the same house with her, he barely even speaks or looks her way. You can tell he gets uncomfortable when she comes around. That's part of the reason why he went back to Texas to work. His brother is petrified of her and my FIL is rarely home cause she treats him so badly. She tried to come at me wrong a few times but I nipped that in the bud quickly especially since she wants to be around our kids, she knows I will not hesitate to revoke her privileges to spending time with them if she talk to me crazy or even think about treating me or my kids or my husband wrong. I'm the type that will speak up and I have plenty of times with her. She tried to mistreat my husband..I was not having that shit at all.
@icestorm1123, and it’s prob hard to discuss this with your husband cuz that’s his mom I’ve been in a similar situation in the past
@annarizzo123 she does, from what I have heard, she abused my husband while growing up and hates him cause he looks like his biological father whom is not in the picture.
@annarizzo123 and showing her that her claims and judgement towards me are false. And showing her that I don't mind helping her out, I told her I would replace the spoiled food with fresh food, so she really has no reason to be upset.
@icestorm1123, seems like she got some mommy and son issues and def jealousy
@annarizzo123 you have a point, my cooking is better, and my cleaning skills are better than hers, but she complains I don't cook or clean to my husband and he always laughs at her and walk off...Everytime I cook the whole household enjoys what I make and bugs me to cook often..but when she does they eat out or bring back fast food. And her food is rarely touched, I eat it sometimes just to make her happy. She thinks I'm trying to outdo her or whatever but really I'm just showing her part of the reason why her son married me in the first place 🤷🏾♀️
@icestorm1123, she doesn’t even buy good food your very nice for doing this for her I think she’s mad because she’s embarrassed about it that you thought you needed to clean it
@raheema I'mma check it out thanks!! I'm probably going to itch too and then deep clean my MIL whole house. Lol
@icestorm1123, I'd be like "here's a cooler and some ice until you can be not gross" 😂 seriously, though, good point.
The fridge is still yellow I think you just gotta throw the whole damn fridge out now
@raheema that's an actual show. Omg. And yeah when I leave I don't give a crap what she do cause we ain't coming back here lol.
I would LOVE YOU IF my fridge was this bad and you cleaned it out!!! It looks amazing!
@raheema lol, I do too I just keep my mouth shut cause she has a bad history. And when she's pissed she retaliates. And I don't want her retaliating on my kids or cause I'm going to retaliate and end up in jail. So I just shut up lol. Especially since we live her for now
@raheema I don't understand how people can live in that and then turn around and call everyone else dirty and messy. I don't get it
@icestorm1123, Oh she’s a MIL she can and she will! You just have to be ready with a retort to shut her down LOL!
Hell nah that shit is nasty af. It should be thrown out, quarantined, something. 🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️
@icestorm1123 atleast now you know you wont be eating spoiled food
@jessicalaneee idk how I did it either. I couldn't eat her food, we always ate out. But now my husband is in Texas getting our place, I don't have the car so now I have to use her kitchen and since I have to use her kitchen I refuse to eat or cook in filth.
I don't know how you lived with that for 7 months. After 7 days I would have been throwing things out. That's ridiculous.
@sarah.s good lol, I can't wait to get out of here and move back to tx. My FIL gave me money for doing it. Dude bout cried cause of it lol.
I don't go. Lol She is in Utah and I'm in Tx. They are coming here in August 😏
@nomli lmao! I was thinking the same thing, but then I remembered I would have had to buy her a new one and I don't got that type of money yet lol.
Holy 🤢
I’m glad you went in there and cleaned that, I don’t even want to know what horrors you found
@sarah.s that's insane omg. I just wouldn't go over there at all lol. I don't mess with her rooms but when it comes to the kitchen, don't nobody want to cook in a filthy area. She complains noone eats her cooking and it's because the kitchen is always a mess.
@nomli I believe she is, she has loads of crap everywhere.
@memybumpandi possibly, but if she's that embarrassed she better not ever say I can't clean cause I didn't pick up my kid shirt after they threw it on the floor.
@sarah.s, The lady we bought the house from was a hoarder, and she couldn't part with anything, even half broken toys from a dozen years ago. So much stuff. She couldn't even bear to have movers come and pack everything, because she'd "lose control" over her belongings.
I gotta say, kudos to you, though. I would've just chucked the whole fridge.
That is crazy she was mad. My MIL wont let us clean her house or she will get mad. You can't walk in a few bedrooms. Basement is a maze as well. Her daughters have offered to clean it. They even thought maybe when she is out of town then go clean it.
Thank goodness she lives in a different state.
Good for you for helping .
@tiffanyf ikr. Just nasty, I couldn't keep opening up that fridge pretending this was acceptable.
@keepingupwithtwo thank you, idk how she wants to live with this and think it's ok. Most of that food I had to throw out I bought for her. So I was quite pissed.
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I gotta say, kudos to you, though. I would've just chucked the whole fridge.