Great job op, glad things are working out for you❤️

He tried to say no, but I left anyway. When I got back we got into a huge fight and I almost left, but we ended up talking it through and we're okay for now

How did it go?? What did he say??

Good!

Well I did it guys, yesterday he got home from work, I threw some laundry in the washer, handed him the baby and went to get my hair cut. Got my eyebrows done too

Yeah that's pretty crappy of him. Not only getting the haircut but hiding it with the hat. ? lame

I would be so upset. The fact that he wore a hat to hide it would really set me off. Like wtf, you knew I'd be mad so you tried to hide the fact that you went and got a haircut ??? men ugh ?

Just book it and say I'm off to get my hair done. Book a pedicure too and have a half day pamper.

Get f*** ed i would be so f*** ing pissed. I would dump the baby on his lap and say "im going out" "for a hair cut and maybe a coffee too"

You NEED time for yourself

He sounds like my guy. Put your foot down mama get that hair did. I just make an appt and say "ive got a date friday at 5pm dont ruin it for me" and he understands. He texts and calls the whole time asking when ill be home; but he does back off and let me do it without complaining about it.

"He wore a hat all day so I wouldnt notice". ???

Thats kinda funny, but quite sad at the same time.

I agree with PP , just go cut your hair, might as well get your nails done while your at it. Seeing as he decided to be all sneaky.

He told you you're a bad mum if you are away from your daughter for a while? ...What? Call him out on his bull s*** and leave him with his child! Seriously, how do women keep ending up with men like this? Its saddening.

Go have your break.

When your dh comes home from work, grab your keys and purse and RUN and don't look back??. You deserve an hour alone hun.