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Would you want your mom to come to your final ultrasound with you? I get to have a last one on thursday. I'm super excited about! Mom asked if she could come...I know it sounds like an easy decision. I'm very reserved and that to me would be uncomfortable, but it would literally make her year! But I don't know if I can handle her tears and her emotions seeing the baby on the screen... so is it bad if I say no...? Or is that mean of me? I don't wanna take this away from her...or should I just say yes and suck it up?
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That's a wonderful Mother's Day gift!!

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That's a wonderful Mother's Day gift!!

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After prayer and discussion with hubby, we decided as part of her mother's day to let her watch. I told her she cannot embarrass me and she agreed. lol. I'm sure she will love it

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Not being mean but ppl.saying something. So personal u only want to share with ya husband but when u need a babysitter u gone share that baby then lol ijs

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I.let my mom and whoever else wants to.come idc lol its just a ultrasound

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I wish I have my mom close by...I would love for her to be at my ultrasound. (My husband is in the military we currently live in the west coast, both of our families are on the east coast) But every person and situation is different. It's really all up to you.

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I've invited my mom to be every ultrasounds. Some she can make and some she can't. She gets positively giddy when she sees my baby on the screen or when I put her hand on my tummy. For me personally, its completely gratifying to share this with my mom. Its like completing the circle. I'm her baby and now I'm having a baby and technology is soo different these days that she's literally speechless at what they can do now a days :-) ita entirely up to you but I can't imagine not sharing this with my mom. :-)

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It's not like she would be looking in your vagiina.. It's simply an ultrasound. I'm guessing she will not be allowed in the room during delivery?!

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I would let my mom come. Her baby is having a baby so it'll be such a precious moment for her.

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I have an ultrasound tomorrow I'm unsure if it'll be my last but my mother is coming and I'm dreading it! I love my mom but she is a control freak and I know she's going to take over the entire appointment. She's going to be in the delivery room and I'm worried I'll have to ask her to step out because I know she will not care what I want and everything needs to be what she wants.

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My mom is coming to mine. We are close and honestly I would let my mil come. Hell is let them both in the room while I gave birth if that's what they wanted. They love this child already and if they want to be there to support it, I'm down with that.

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I would love to take my mom to see that but she past away when I was 16. Don't take anything for granted. My mil came to our first ultrasound and I'm glad she did. :)

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I took my mom to a 3d ultrasound for her birthday. She had never seen one before and she was an awe I loved seeing her happy and having someone to share that excitement with me was amazing for both of us. Again it's completely up to you if you don't feel comfortable then don't do it.

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Well the choice is yours to make but if it helps I take my mom and son with me only cause hubby is unable to make any ultra sounds cause of his work and plus I need someone there to help me with my son and to me it's nice to be able to have someone their to experience it with me

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Just me but I would. She was in the delivery room when I had my first. I was so upset when she couldn't make it to anything with my second (she didn't even make the birth. Just me and hubby). Sharing the pregnancy experience with my mom, if possible, is a given. Maybe that's just me.

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If it were me, I'd let her come.

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