How Common is Stepfather-Daughter Incest?

It's not life... But I will never understand it!

There are lots of ppl in this world.. So I don't get it. It's just wrong on so many levels!

it's not my life lol**

Uh this happened in my family. My mom's brother is in a relationship with his stepdaughter who is now 28, they up and left to move to Florida when they started seeing each other and recently moved back here like a year or 2 ago. Nobody in my family speaks to him, he's gross and have no clue when it actually started. What's even more messed up is that they moved back in with her mom/his wife and his 2 teenaged children. Sick sick sick.

He raised her since she was 5 btw.

Woody Allen married his step daughter too.

I don't get it. But whatevs. That poor woman though.

This kind of happen to me my mom was with a man for 10 years since I was about 6 and when they broke up I still kept him contact with him because he was like a dad to me I even asked him I've I was to even get married if he would walk me down the isle he said of course he would ! So as I was going threw a rough patch in my life (drugs) I'm sober almost 6 years now ! I was about 18 at this point and was dating someone and I went for a coffee with my so called step dad and I was finding him to be jealous I thought well maybe he's being protective since the guy I was with cheated on me so a few weeks passed and we went out for another coffee after we got our coffee we always went for a long drive so we are driving and we were about 25 mins away from my house and he said I have something to tell you and I said what's wrong he said well you mAy never talk to me again and I was confused and asked him to tell me and he continued to tell me that with in the last few months he had fell in love with my ( he's never tried anything before ) so I kind of stayed quite and I said I'm sorry but I look at you like a dad and he continued to tell me he does not look at me like a daughter but in fact wants to be with me so I told him to take me to my brother which he did I told my family they were freaking even my brother and him were still close. I texted him and told him that i don't think we should be around each other for a long time which broke my heart this guy was supposed to be like a dad to me and he started telling me what he would like to do with me as in sexual things I told him it would never happen and at this time my mother is reading my text messages in shock ! This is s few years later now we used to talk he's over it I'm pretty sure but now he is with another woman whom she only has 2 older sons and we don't see each other much at all about a year after it all went down if I did go for a coffe to see him I always had my boyfriend with me .. He also asked me if I would still like him to walk we down the isle I told him I don't think that's a good idea! Sorry for such a long post '

As a stepchild and a step parent, I say that's completely disgusting.

I think it's creepy also. If this is the only father figure she's known it has to make you wonder were they messing around before she became of legal age. Smh

If she was in fact of age it legal, but doesn't mean it is gross. I cannot wrap my head around someone who is 18-19 dating, having relations, or having kids with someone who is 35+ years old. It's seems a little different once your older and date someone with an age gap but being so young I question the older participants motives. I don't understand what an 18ish year old has in common with a 40 year old.

A friend if mine has had her step dad in her life since she was little. She has never called him dad but he is her father figure. That would be mind boggling.

As a stepmom I think this is creepy and gross. I can't imagine sleeping with my husband's CHILD no matter how legal he is or is not.

The baby was born this past march. So she's not even a year old yet.

No the baby.

I have a step father that has been in my life since I was 6 and he is my DAD . this makes me want to vomit in my mouth a little. Each to their own I guess who am I to judge but I do feel sorry for the mom. And the daughter if she was taken advantage of and didn't know better. He knew well what he was doing shame on him

She was 15yrs 3 years ago.. So either she got pregnant when she was almost 18 or when she was 17.. The reason I say she's either 18 or 19 is because I don't know when her actual bday is and it's the end of the year.

I know she was 15 and just started hs cuz that's how old she was when we went our separate ways.

Side note:

I understand the purpose, but I also hate the imaginary line, 18, that the government has had to place on a consensual relationship because we as people can't be trusted to simply date others who are psychosocially appropriate. When our daughters turn 17, the countdown begins! Fair game to all!!

No need to be snappy. I haven't said a single rude or condescending thing towards anyone on here. Just threw in my 2 cents.

@alabaster then I guess it wasnt

How old is the first child?

If my SO's step father had feelings for SO's sister, that would be so incredibly fücked up.

I said we "were" not "are"

And I'm positive the reason she blocked me is because she's a Jehovah's Witness and she's not aloud to speak to anybody outside their congregation.

This guy was the ONLY father figure these kids had. They didn't know their real dad. I was friends with her mom for 5 years.

So I find it highly sickening!!!

? just ewww

a friend of mines nephew has a baby with his wifes mother....its crazy. He cheated and got the mother pregnant and him and the wife also have children.

They all get along now ?

Uh woah now is that directed towards me? Because I neither judged anyone or claimed anyone else was judging someone

Blood or not raising someone from a young age and then having sex with them is wrong. Your to love and care for the child as if they are your blood. I guess I don't take step parenting as lightly as others.

Yes she's legal, but barely...smh. She's 18-19 and a baby is already born with another on the way. I think it's pretty damn safe to assume she wasn't legal when the love affair started.

Everyone judges get over it, stop judging ppl that judge others if it bothers you

Assumptions are being made that there is no reason to delve into it.

Which is worse? Thinking there is something wrong, and it not being the case. Or thinking everything was okay, and it turning out to be a case of grooming.

18-19 is very close to being a minor. Plus tack on a child already, and one on the way. It cuts it close.

It's absolutely disgusting.

I didn't say I don't find anything wrong with it. But by legal standards, they didn't do anything wrong. Do I personally agree with it? No. But I also don't think every older person who sleeps with a young person is an automatic sicko. She may never have viewed him as a father figure.

You're clearly not a close friend if you don't even have her personal contact info and have to contact the daughter. There is a reason the daughter blocked you. I never said you could t judge or form an opinion. I just said it truly isn't your business. Also you had no clue any of this was going on so you've probably been out of the loop for about a year. That doesn't sound like "very close"

So all of these mothers and fathers raising their step children are never really their parents?

He was her father figure. Blood doesn't matter. Yes, it's wrong!

The post says it was a step father and step daughter. No blood relation. And she was of legal age. Idk, really to me this is more of a to each their own situation. It's not technically incest and it wasn't illegal.

The assumption that she was groomed into loving him and that it's not actual love. Or the assumption that it started when she was younger. Op didn't say any of that and neither do we have evidence for it... Don't be acting like I said I support it. I don't. But just because I don't support it doesn't make it wrong.

I also think more people should get involved in other people's business if children or future children are at risk. It would probably help a lot of children out instead of turning cheek.

If he can get sexual with a person that he raised from child. I won't put it past him to do it to future children. Blood related or not.

Mom and dad.

Dad has baby with daughter.

Wrong.

What's the assumption?

Skatelate, it's not like I'm getting into it.. I didn't contact the one that had the baby. I contacted her sister. I'll say what I please and what I think about it.. I have every right to judge this situation. We were VERY close friends! I'm reaching out to see if she's okay.. How things are going.. I don't care if u think what I think is wrong about it. U don't like what these lovely ladies and I have to say about a sick situation like this then move around. ?

I will judge a love if there was any potential for him to have taken advantage of a child. Which I very much guess it to be the situation. If she was 18-19, they could have had sex while she was still a minor.

These hoes ain't loyal.

I think a lot of people on this thread are making a lot of assumptions. Honestly OP it's none of your business and it wasn't your place to contact the step daughter. You're no longer friends with the mother. They literally aren't a part of your life really. If it doesn't concern you I'd say leave it alone... For the record I think it's strange but it's not my place to judge someone else's love. It's also not actually incest at all.

I don't speak to any of them i don't want him around my daughter I'm sure I am doing the right thing and for them I don't want them near me either no self respect

@Nocturnal Yeahhh, I'd have to cut contact with that part of my family after that. ?

And my "sister" would say how in love she is with my dad like if he was a teen age boy or something I don't blame the guy only the girl too for going for it .. my step sister was like so into my dad like eeww

My dad did that with my step sister eew and my step mom was okeys with it they all lived in the same house she had 2 kids and my step mom would even baby sit them so grows I saw her as my sister and my dad raised her from a very young age so nasty I don't think it's normal

Ronnie, if she's the same as I knew her a cpl of years ago. I'm pretty sure she kicked his ass! I hope she did it too!

Pp, yup!

I wouldn't doubt it that the step father probably molested her since she was young. And manipulated her into thinking it was true love.

Disturbing father figure issue aside, didn't she massively break the girl code by taking her mom's man??

Thats gross. If I were the mom I'd hunt that guy down. He watched her grow up!?

Exactly raven! ??

Thats just nasty (Cleveland voice)

I know! I was thinking the same

Woody Allen is apparently this guy's hero. His stepdaughter probably doesn't even know who that is.

It just disturbs me when I hear of relationships like this. It's like the parent figure got to raise and basically groom their future sexual partner.

Not OK.

Makes you wonder when that relationship actually started.

Haha tarot! Her only son is named woody.. I just don't understand it!! He's been in that girls life since she was 8..

? that's nasty

That's some Woody Allen sh!t right there.

Yes stepfather. Not by blood

So it's a step father and not by blood right?

Sounds like some Jerry Springer shat.

To each their own I guess. ?