Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
This is my son Walter. Today is his birthday. He would have been five. This picture was taken when he was 16 days old. He was my first child and my only son (I now have 3 girls). He passed away the next day after this picture from congenital heart failure. It was a miracle that he lived passed 12 weeks gestation because of how severe his heart defects were. I miss him so much, I can't believe it's been 5 years. It still hurts so bad. I don't talk about him a lot out loud because I end up bawling, so i thank you for letting me share this with you ladies. You have always been nice and supportive. Happy birthday son, your mom loves you.
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Ok so not using actual numbers.. But everyone knows I'm over weight since having my girls. It's no secret. BUT i was talking with my hubby last night and idk how we got to this but he said something like (not using actual numbers) no one should weigh 800lbs, they should take care of themselves. And i said so what if someone weighs 800lbs? He said no one should weigh that, they should be healthier. I said well i almost weigh 800! I'm in the 790s. And I'm healthy. I may be overweight but i don't have any diseases, no high cholesterol, no high blood pressure, i don't have a bad heart, lungs, or anything else. So I'm healthy I'm just over weight. So then we argued about him having an issue with my weight.. Am i wrong in this? Because it really hurt my feelings.. I've tried sooo many different things to lose weight but having hypothyroidism makes you gain/hard to lose. And my medications for depression and anxiety cause you to gain also.. So it's very hard to lose weight.. But i didn't even know he had an issue with my weight until last night..
Went to the hospital for some pain and I found out my son is measuring small according to my last ultrasound.. He is in the 6th percentile they said.. I have to go to my doctor tomorrow. I had no idea the OB on call could see my ultrasound results from my check up. Has anyone else's baby measure small then be okay? I don't know a lot yet because I wasn't able to see my doctor as its Sunday, so I only got the doctor on call information. He really just said it is important that I go in tomorrow. Kind of scared right now!
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? don't stress it, just place all your worries & stress in god.
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Praying. I am sure all will be okay
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Praying for you and your lo! ?
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Praying for you and baby
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Praying for you and your baby boy.
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Praying
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This happened to my cousin. The cardiac ultrasound showed her heart was fine. They sent her there after her 20wk ultrasound bc baby's chest was measuring in the 5th% and that can signal cardiac issue or the lungs can over crowd the heart. Anyway, she was born and is 1now, she is perfect but her chest is small but she is a peanut anyways. I'm praying all good news for you too, and you get to see baby again:)
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Thank you ladies!
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Counting you and your family in my prayers! Stay strong mommy
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You & your baby our in my thoughts hun, try not to stress too much <3
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Hoping everything works out for you all!
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Sending prays up
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Prayers love that everything is growing healthy
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Praying for you!
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Prayers sweetie.
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My ds was born with a congenial heart defect. He had 3 holes in his heart. The 2 holes in his heart that are normally supposed to close when baby takes their first breath didn't close after he was born. Also he had a hole between his bottom 2 ventricles. He was was still a healthy baby, just had a murmur. They had us go to a pediatric cardiologist who told us that most of the time they close on their own by the time they are 2. But occasionally they will have to patch the holes with a surgery. At my son's 18 month appt all 3 holes had closed!
It was a lot of stress for nothing. He is a healthy 4 year old.
Try not to stress until you know more. Our babies' bodies are amazing!
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@dirtbike momma, I'm glad that your son is doing great now!! I'm just keeping myself busy from thinking about it too hard... It's just a situation where I can only pray he gets better and doesn't struggle with it ya know! But I have my appointment next week hopefully it was just a glitch in the ultrasound lol... But thank you mommas for praying and I'll give updates :-)
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I have a heart defect, and I'm fine :) they'll just do an EKG and echo on him when he's born. I'm sure it's a very small issue that will resolve itself, don't worry!
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Pray! So will I
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hoping things work out for the best for you! <3
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Keep us updated! Will be thinking of you ❤️❤️❤️
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Sending good thoughts