IT HAPPENED LADIES! My MIL FINALLY unfriended and blocked me on Facebook! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 Oh, happy freakin’ day!!!! Who knew a…

They see their grandchildren as extensions of themselves because “that’s my son”

Whether she likes it or not, your SO needs to grow some balls and tell her HE HAS HIS OWN FAMILY THAT SHE NEEDS TO STOP TRYING TO MEDDLE WITH.

Also, bitch MIL...

Being a grandma isnt a right, it’s a privilege. And your privileges have been revoked !!

Tell her that, she’d go fucking nuclear 😂

@miaheka, he’s gotta be like “that’s my girl and OUR son. What WE say goes. You don’t have to like it or like her but you WILL respect her as his mother - the mother of my child- or you don’t have to be around at all. We can be adults, the choice is yours”

@steph_anie, I definitely agree.😬

@miaheka yeah thats a huge red flag in our book. So not safe

@bbyzvcy18, lol Awh, poor girl! I don’t mess around when it comes to my baby. 🤷🏻‍♀️

@steph_anie, You’re close with your parents so it’s okay. lol but she did it out of nowhere. We didn’t find out till we went to her house one day and saw all of the baby stuff. 🤦🏻‍♀️ it was cringy. That’s exactly how I feel about her. I just don’t trust her with him without supervision. Every time we go to her house I follow her whenever she holds Bellamy, which is usually only for 2 minutes. She’s afraid she’ll drop him. Hearing her say that just makes me not want to let her hold him anymore. 😣 I trust my SIL more than her.

@miaheka LMAO!!!! 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣!!!! Omg, my older sister had a horrible mil too and i really wish that she had your courage. Shes no longer a part of that family but to this day i know she regrets not standing her ground.

@miaheka omg, what a wacko. I think we have a crib at my parents just incase they do babysit since they own a house and my in laws dont have the room for him at their apartment. But id never leave my child with someone who gives off the vibe that theyll steal my baby. No way, no how. So not safe.

@bbyzvcy18, I honestly just don’t even care. My SO is like freaking out and I told him... “well, if it’s her time, then let Jesus take her.” 😂😂😂 He was not happy. He doesn’t believe in god or anything which made that comment so much more funnier for me. 😂😂😂😂😂

@miaheka LMAO!!!! Yes, she did it to herself. No ones going to fall for it... shes crazy wicked. Omg, im sorry to say, shes grandma BUT i dont pity her one bit.

@steph_anie, @bbyzvcy18, So, I guess she’s really in the ER with chest pains and trouble breathing. Mike is there and he keeps texting me saying that she’s asking for Bellamy... you know what I said? NOPE. 🙅🏻‍♀️😂

@steph_anie, That’s all she does is seek attention.🤦🏻‍♀️ I’m not letting his dad take him to see her anymore. He always comes back screaming because she scares the crap out of him. She’s extremely loud and obnoxious and my little boy is mellow as hell. She keeps talking about how he’ll grow up in the Bronx and be a troublemaker, blah blah blah. She has NO idea that we plan on moving out of state this summer. She’s gonna flip. 😂 I can see her now... “oh son, why do you have to leave me with that girl, and take my grandson with you.” 😂 This woman has a million other grandchildren but never sees them, so why the hell is my son her distant obsession? She bought a crib, pack n’play, stroller and car seat for her house while I was pregnant because she seriously thought she was gonna have him every day. 😂 2 months PP and that stuff is still there. She’s nuts! 😂

@miaheka honestly, I wouldnt bring a newborn around her if she was rushed to the hospital. No thank you. She is such an attention seeker is sick.

@steph_anie, She is the worst! I also had been struggling with my weight before and during pregnancy and still am to this day. I gained 80 pounds with little man and I absolutely hate the way I look unfortunately. Working out PP is so difficult because there are a million other things to take care of beforehand. 😣 So my mil was supposedly rushed to the hospital this morning with chest pain and I don’t have an ounce of care for her. How bad is that?! 😅 She’s done shit like this before so mike can take Bellamy to see her..🙄 even if it is real this time I still don’t give a fuck and she isn’t seeing my son either. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I wouldn’t wish them on my worst enemy either.

@bbyzvcy18, hahahahaha when I vent about something or someone, I don’t hold back. 😂 And that’s most likely it! Babies can sense negativity and this bitch’s aura and everything about her is all negativity. 😂😂🙄

@miaheka omg, seriously what a horrible human she is! Ive been called huge by mine too and I sit there like okay, i struggled for years with body image and just recently started to feel okay with being larger bc of the baby. But holy cow, your mil is horrible, i wouldnt wish either one of ours on my worst enemy.

@steph_anie, Lmao No, for real we do. 😂 My monster in law tried saying the same shit. “OH, M.I.A. you’re not gonna deliver normally! You’re gonna need a c-section because Mikey was 8 pounds! You’re gonna have a big baby! He might be 10 pounds because you’re HUGE!” I was SO sick and tired of her rude ass comments about my belly and weight gain. 😒 Little did the wench know that I DID DELIVER vaginally with no tears or complications, and my baby was only 7 pounds 9 ounces and 19.5 inches. So HA, bitch. 😒 her response? “Oh, you were just lucky this time!” 🙄God, I hate her. 😣 lol you should tell her to suck one when she calls you. 😂 It worries me that there are more than one like our MIL’s. 😩😭

@miaheka OMG, lol... i swear i can read your comments all day long and just enjoy every bit of it. Yes he is a very smart boy. Hes prob like "Youre mean to my mommy so i dont like you "!!! Hahahaha oh cutie, he could prob sense it too that shes not a good intention person. Hehehe.

@miaheka she had 2 c-sections..one bc my husband has big shoulders so every single chance she gets she mentions how Ill have one too (adding more anxiety to my day since its serious surgery) mine calls my husband 24/7 too and for random shit as well. If he doesnt answer her 5th call or 12th text she text me. And im like he worked 16hr hes sleeping. She goes, oh well i need to speak to him. Ok thats nice, hell call you back. Smh. I swear if i had the balls to tell her to go suck one I would. I have never disliked someone so much in my entire life until I met her lol

I really think we have the same MIL 😂 like to the T thats so scary to know there are more like them

@steph_anie, oh hell no. She needs to keep her kids in check. 🤦🏻‍♀️ My SO is the youngest out of 5, but also the one she goes to for EVERYTHING. “Son, buy me this, get me that, did you watch the Yankee game? Oh I’m watching cast away, blah, blah, blah...” She calls him 20+ times a day for rand shit, and texts him 24/7 because she literally has no god damn life. I hate her. 🤦🏻‍♀️ And your MIL is evil. You’d think she would understand why you’re sleeping... you should’ve said “uhm, hello! I’m growing a human being here...” 🙄 We also have a dog with separation anxiety and I struggled PP to do things around the house so my SO stayed with me till I was strong enough to do things on my own. You should tell her times are different now. Women don’t just go straight to work after pushing out a human being. 🙄 I hate when people say that shit. Lmao I definitely know how you feel. She wasn’t this ridiculous either until I got pregnant. 😒😂

@miaheka Girl! Her youngest legit says curse words talks back, doesnt listen or respect her. Hes 14! Acts like hes 32 like my husband. She didnt even disapline him when he told me he doesnt want a niece or nephew he just wanted his brother. What?! Lol then this kiddo has the balls to be like buy me new jordans and his mom goes along with it telling my husband he should. Um no he should not. Our money goes to the baby.

Listen to this shit, she came over to help us clean. I dont sleep at night, i sleep during the day and when she got here i heard her say "why is she sleeping, why am i here if shes sleeping, she needs to eat, feed the baby" i heard him snap and say "leave her alone, shes pregnant and she doesnt sleep." Like what a real bitch. She thinks bc she went back to work right after having her kids that i need to do the same. Even told me that i dont need my husband home for a month that 2 weeks is fine. (We have two dogs i cant walk while taking care of a newborn) and just puts me down for my choices. Wtf man, she wasnt this bad before we got pregnant...so i dont know what her issue is. Lol

@steph_anie, NO FOR REAL, ARE YOU SURE WE DON’T HAVE THE SAME MONSTER IN LAW?! 😂 Oh wait, you said 2 sons... this evil cunt has 5 boys. 🤦🏻‍♀️ 😂 &My SO understands it as well but never speaks it. And I definitely agree with you when you say Puerto Rican moms treat their sons like they’re gods. It’s amazing how much she brags about them and creepy at the same time. She literally believes they can’t do any wrong. 😂 we’re not teaching him Spanish either. 🤷🏻‍♀️

@miaheka my son is half Puerto Rican too! No one believes me when I say puerto rican moms treat their sons / boys like they walk on water 😂 the best is her two sons dont even speak it. Minus my husband he understands it and can speak it but doesnt. So we dont see the issue in teaching our son spanish if we dont speak it at home 😂😂

@steph_anie, Lmao I said the same thing to my SO about the Spanish thing! 😂 I said, if he’s ever going to learn any language it’s going to be either French or Italian, NOT Spanish. I don’t care if he’s half Puerto Rican. 😒 $400?! HELL NO. That birch wouldn’t even be paid since she wants to be “grandma” lmao. I’m content with being a SAHM, work stresses me out way too much, and my sweet boy loves me way more than his daddy. 😝 I’d definitely be willing to trade her in for another puppy. 🤷🏻‍♀️😂

@miaheka omg we have the same MIL 😂😭 she is all about boys but if we had a girl i feel she would be 1,000x worse! My husband told me i can be a SAHM while he works bc im super anal on where our son will go. And when i mentioned day care prices, (2k for 4 days at the top school in town) he goes, just let my mom watch him, ill pay her 400 a week to be with him. I said no fucking way. She will be that person to teach him spanish just so they can talk about how im a shitty mom lol. Im so over my MIL, can we trade them in for something idk usefull? Like a new pair of shoes or a puppy

@steph_anie, Seriously the same. And that’s really messed up that she would do that. She’s got balls writing that. 🤦🏻‍♀️ Bellamy never kicked for her either, she was so upset. 😂 And she also would refer to my baby as hers in numerous ways, as well as go under my shirt to touch my belly. I was extremely annoyed. My SO knows I hate her, and he doesn’t understand why. My hatred for her enhanced even more during my pregnancy. I swear if we didn’t have a boy she would be different, but nope. She’s obsessed with boy babies and it freaks me out. I already told her I don’t want her kissing my child, she isn’t happy about that. She also thought she was going to watch him every day when he was born... nope. I quit my job to be a stay at home mom to prevent that ridiculous fantasy of hers from happening. 🤷🏻‍♀️😂

@miaheka we picked out names for the grandparents and wanted to call them (in laws) grandma/pa while my parents are called Mimi & Pop-Pop.

She wrote in a card love Lita (spanish for grandma) and pop pop. I was like, um no. My dad was real upset, hes the only pop pop in our family.

Our son already doesnt kick for her when she tries to touch my belly. I have such negative feelings towards her since i became pregnant. She makes comments like "feed my baby / oh youre nasty while pregnant" granted I didnt eat that morning and I was fuming bc my husband wasnt helping me fix our freezer. Lol. But yeah, i swear my MIL is the mil from hell. Such an evil witch...she legit thinks shes going to watch him while i go back to work full time and I refuse, refuse to allow that

@steph_anie, She is a bitch! Holy shit. Are you sure we don’t have the same monster in law?! 😳😂 It seriously sounds the same. I also told my SO that I didn’t feel like family, just a surrogate and babysitter and he hates that I feel this way. His mom has tried multiple times to ruin our relationship and has attempted to take my baby. I don’t trust the bitch. If she ever threw a party for him secretly like that she’d be the only one going. I refuse to let her around him more than once a month. She’s lucky she even gets to see him once a month. She’s evil. I’ve already started teaching Bellamy not to like her, and so far it’s been going well. 😂 We call her the evil lady now instead of grandma. She doesn’t deserve that title. 🤷🏻‍♀️😂

@miaheka your MIL sounds exactly like mine 😂 i told my husband that i felt like i was just supposed to pop out our son and hand him over to her since shes been calling him "hers" for the last 9 months. Mine also lives 3 blocks away and has already planned a party for when hes a month to show him off to family without us knowing about it until recently.

MIL are wacky

@miaheka what a real effin bitch

@bbyzvcy18, she’s only seen him twice since he’s been born. The first at the hospital (she bribed the front desk to let her in an hour before visiting hours, and was upset that she had to say my last name to get access through maternity). And the second time was a month ago. She complained to my SO that I’m keeping my son from her so we went to her house for a couple hours to shut her up. Did I forget to mention that this lazy bitch lives 3 SHORT BLOCKS from our house. 🤦🏻‍♀️ That’s the last time I agree to take him to her house. I don’t even want her near him ever. Lmao when he’s bigger she might not even be around anymore...🤷🏻‍♀️😂 and Thank youuu!!! 💛 Even though he looks nothing like me, he has my personality and is a complete mama’s boy.😍 Im already teaching him to dislike her. He cried with her the whole two minutes she held him last time. I was super proud of him! 😂

@miaheka Has she visited him? What are her reactions? Lol... oh gawd, shes prob so anxious for your little Bellamy!!! He is so adorable. Yeah, shes prob going to wait until he gets bigger and then slowly creep her way into his life as if shes always been there.

@bbyzvcy18, lmao oh, you’re lucky! Honestly though, I’m still convinced that she wouldn’t be this kookoo if we had a girl! She has a crazy obsession with boys, it scares me. She’s never allowed to watch Bellamy, I don’t trust her.😒

@miaheka Ahahahaa... wow. My fiances dad passed away when he was 2 years old. His mom is still around but ive heard a lot stories about her... she knows we are exepcting our baby boy but she doesnt seem to care much. It's ok though, hearing your stories makes me kind of glad that shes not part of our life 😆😆😆😆. I seriously think that if she was shed be something like your mil. Hehehe 😆😆😆😆

@bbyzvcy18, you’d think it would be embarrassing for her, but she couldn’t have cared any less. 😂 It baffles me that she’s so careless and oblivious. A true “dgaf” attitude. 😂 she is truly wicked. 🧙🏻‍♀️ and I’m serious though, she probably does think I’m just a surrogate! 🤷🏻‍♀️😂

@miaheka Lmao... stop.... you are too funny @ Surrogate. Rofl Ahahahahaha 😂🤣😁😃😆😄

@miaheka OMG!!!!! WTH!!!!! Wow, she has some real REAL nerves. Oh wow, that was embarassing on HER part. How wicked!

@emily_02,Lmao 😂 mine is a monster in law too.

Main reason why I got out of Facebook 🙋🏻‍♀️ I couldn’t stand seeing my MIL make posts about my daughter as if she ever did anything for her. Smh. I’ve dealt with so much worse. Reason why I call her a monster in law 🤣

@bbyzvcy18, read the long ass comment I replied to up there about my non existent baby shower 😂

@bbyzvcy18, She’s very self centered and absolutely refuses to acknowledge that my baby is mine... she probably thinks I’m a damn surrogate/ nanny for all I know! 😂🤦🏻‍♀️

@purplecarissa, lol😂 🙈

@roguemommyofjx3, that’s so awful! I would be livid too!

@steph_anie, @roguemommyofjx3, Lmao girls, try having a MIL who offered to throw you a baby shower but NEVER did. 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️ By the time I turn 36 weeks my SO asked her what the hell happened because we were all excited for it, and you know what she said?!?!!! “OH SON, I WAS WATCHING THE YANKEES ONE DAY AND DECIDED NOT TO THROW ONE FOR HER.” My SO was livid. 😂 Baseball season had ended in October when I was 24 weeks. I couldn’t help but laugh so damn hard. 😂 The woman is something else. I never believed anything she said after that. Never had a baby shower because my SO really thought she was going to throw one for me. I LEARNED MY DAMN LESSON! 🤦🏻‍♀️😂

Girl I blocked his whole damn family off fb and every social media in 2016. They all were mad. 😂😂 your mil sounds alot like mine. Are you sure we don't have the same one? Its crazy cuz she threw a big surprise baby shower for her daughter but never threw one for my 3 girls. She's so messed up she didn't come see my husband for his birthday until a week after then she had the nerve to ask him to help her pay and throw his sister and brother a big birthday party at a rental hall. 😡 I was livid. He felt so bad. 😢

@miaheka, sounds like my mother in law

Lol!!!! High five ✋! This was so funnuy. Wow, she sounds very selfish. Bellamy is indeed your baby and full custody. She has some nerves telling you thats her sons son! Of course it is but the mom is what matters most! Didnt she know that? Hahaha, so happy for you.

@miaheka sounds so much like my MIL. My mom planned and slaved over my babyshower, and she not once even offered to help pay for anything besides make food. Then when it came time to post photos of the babyshower she didnt even bother. But she has the balls to tell me how I should eat, raise, etc OUR child. She legit told us that we have to baptize our son (im not religious and he doesnt go to church) and when I said we wouldnt, he response was, "well he needs to be blessed then" like sorry. No.

I wish MIL respected parents. I cant even enjoy the month with our son alone bc shes already planning to have people go over and hold a party to see him. Your mil though, sounds like a real winner

@lana2018, Lol you’re very lucky! 🙈😂 it all good girl! I’m a lot happier now that she unfriended me. 😂 He’s already talked to her, and it’s really just all her who’s crazy. 🤷🏻‍♀️😂

@kaliyahsmommy579, it’s extremely annoying. I waited for her to unfriend me instead, so I didn’t have to deal with her complaining to my SO about me and why I’m keeping her from updates on my baby. 🙄😒🤷🏻‍♀️

@queeniefitmama, He pretty much told her that, but in a nicer way. 😂🤷🏻‍♀️ She’s barely even around so I’m not even mad about. She doesn’t even go to family outings or family parties. She expects everyone to go to her, and she had a rude awakening when I came into the family/picture. She’s not even going to be acknowledged on Mother’s Day. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Everything about her status is revoked. Mike can only show her pictures of Bellamy on his phone when he goes over there, but that’s it. No more sending pictures or her stealing mine from fb. She did this to herself. Her fucking loss. 🤷🏻‍♀️😂

@miaheka, he’s gotta be like “that’s my girl and OUR son. What WE say goes. You don’t have to like it or like her but you WILL respect her as his mother - the mother of my child- or you don’t have to be around at all. We can be adults, the choice is yours”

@lost.sock.thief, I envy you. I really wish my mil wasn’t the way she is, but you can’t pick your in laws...🤷🏻‍♀️

@queeniefitmama, preach!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 She really does think he’s an extension of her. She always tries to find things about him resembling her and I’m just like, NO bitch, he’s my son and looks NOTHING like you.🙅🏻‍♀️ Just because he looks like his dad doesn’t mean he looks anything like you.😒 He definitely knows how I feel about her, which is why we only see her once a month if she’s lucky, even though she lives 3 blocks away.🤷🏻‍♀️ Her privilege as a grandma is definitely revoked with her childish attitude. She hasn’t even acted like a grandma to my son so she never really was one. I bet she’s gonna bitch about me to my SO tomorrow... oh, well! 🤷🏻‍♀️

@floralfairy, For real! Like, he’s my son. I care for him everyday and even though you live 3 blocks away, you only see him once a month if I feel like letting you see him... so, bye. 👋🏼 It’s ridiculous. This woman has 5 boys and a million grandchildren she never sees, but thinks it’s okay to take my pictures of my baby and post them as her own not including anything about him mommy. 😒

This is why I’m so thankful for my MIL she’s not shitty like most she’s actually like the best

They see their grandchildren as extensions of themselves because “that’s my son”

Whether she likes it or not, your SO needs to grow some balls and tell her HE HAS HIS OWN FAMILY THAT SHE NEEDS TO STOP TRYING TO MEDDLE WITH.

Also, bitch MIL...

Being a grandma isnt a right, it’s a privilege. And your privileges have been revoked !!

Tell her that, she’d go fucking nuclear 😂