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Spanking didn't teach me respect. It taught me that spanking my kids was the best thing but I found out it's actually…

Spanking didn't teach me respect. It taught me that spanking my kids was the best thing but I found out it's actually not . My son doesn't hit me , he rarely throws tantrums , yes I used to spank him but I been trying hard to stop . I don't want him to fear me . I don't want to make him feel like he has to hit his children just to get respect. I'm not perfect. Still working on it . I give my son alot of praise when he plays quietly . It's working well. It gets hard at first but now he's starting to understand .

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ameagan213

Meagan M

Мама двоих (3 года, 9 лет)

I can relate. I was spanked until I was 7 years old, so I just thought that's how you deal with bad behavior. I spanked my daughter for awhile but eventually stopped. I've only spanked my son a handful of times but it is hard to stop. Talking to them and redirecting really works a million times better

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