@mrscooper17 yes they are and I don't get it either. Especially those men that grew up without fathers like I understand the whole "cycle" of they don't know better but how can u not at least want to try and be better than the man that gave u life and left u. Smh.. ish just don't add up

@korimommi, lol kids are a blessing and it’s sad how some fathers don’t understand that.. smh i wish i would leave my kids in this world and they not know who i am i would go crazy lol

@mrscooper17 Thank you. I'm getting used to it now. it's been an interesting journey alone this far and I know once my baby girl is actually in my arms my whole perspective will change. I'm already so protective like don't make me mad cuz she's gonna feel it please exit my life immediately lol

Hey i know where you are coming from trust me. I’ve been there with my two kids and it’s a high hill to get over but eventually you will just give it time.. as long as your kids got you they will be Great 😍😍.. keep your head up

Smh. I just don't understand how they can make a baby than not want to be around. My dad was always in my life whether he was dealing with my mom or not. I just didn't believe deadbeats were that easy to come by lol.. I've seen some of the worst at least try to step up. And I'm still pregnant so I know my hormones are making this even harder a pill to swallow along with the fact that he showed me no signs of being this type of guy. I wasn't supposed to be able to get pregnant and he knew this so when I did he was all happy, telling me how much he loved me and then he disappeared. I know I'll get over it eventually just need to vent sometimes so ty for understanding.