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Well I posted on here today about.my sister and her baby and how my mom asked me to help so she can get guardenship and…

Well I posted on here today about.my sister and her baby and how my mom asked me to help so she can get guardenship and I told her two weeks I can help and now I feel bad because now my nephew is going to foster care am I a bad person because I won't help my mom out for two months so jamie can have him later

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jody1

JodyМама дочки (4 года)

@preciouslove, I asked my mom but she said my sister doesn't want me to take guardenship and he said only for two weeks and she can find a babysitter at that time

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preciouslove

AngelaМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

@jody1 what does your husband say? If he's okay with it and you're able to I would the Foster system isn't always good. That is your nephew but I understand if you're not able to because that is a big responsibility it would be hard for me to say no especially if I knew they were going into foster care.

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jody1

JodyМама дочки (4 года)

@motherof3boyz702, I told my mom two weeks we realized I would be the one with the baby most of the day my mom has to be at the work at 10 but doesn't start until 11 and she will get home at 9 and I live 20 min from her so I'll have the baby before nine and until after 9 in the morning and she wouldn't take the 2 weeks she wants me to do it for two months and I know it would be more and I already planned my vacation she wanted me to decide the same day and she wanted it before I talked to my husband

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roses702

Rose Мама троих детей

thats a real hard situation...

me personally i would help my siblings out.. especially if she only has you to help

i just think only a selfish person would say not to help out ur own family

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jody1

JodyМама дочки (4 года)

@blessed2018w9, she had preeclampsia at 29 weeks or something so she had him early she was going to give him up but since she had preeclampsia they said it would be worse next time that's why she kept him because she doesn't want to go thru it again

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blessed2018w9

blessed2018w9Многодетная мама (8 детей), беременна

What I don't understand is why Jamie can't get straight 9m b4 baby was born she had PLENTY enough time to help don't blame yourself you did what you could

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