Just my random thought and vent for the night. Why do people on your facebook say that if you need to talk they will…

@aylenrose I'm not justifying it. But maybe they are just loners themselves and don't know how to really hold a conversation. Because honestly, I'll catch myself telling people if they need someone to talk to I'm here to listen, but I am so used to not having friends or really talking to people so when they do talk to me, I don't know what the hell to say. But that's just me. I guess I'm just awkward haha

@me.mykids.and.i that's very true! I'd probably be the same way for a minute before warming up. The person though isn't a loner she has plenty of friends. I met her when she was pregnant at our mutual friends engagement party. We got along really well and talked quite a bit afterwards and I did her maternity pictures and then she stopped commenting on stuff and ignoring my comments. That mutual friend of ours that was engaged was one of my bridesmaids in my wedding this past January and on my wedding pictures she commented about how our friend looked so pretty and couldn't wait to see her on her wedding day. No comment about me looking nice or anything I just don't get what happened.

I can relate to this!!

I get that too. I’ll try to be nice and comment also to strike up conversation. And it’s like haha thanks 🤔 um like that’s it but they have paragraphs for other people I just figure they don’t like me 😂 😑 but once I see I’m doing all the work and I’m not receiving anything I start to back off and see if they return but if not what’s the point in u always reaching out and not getting anything back🤨

@3babyboyz yeah me to they always have paragraphs and smiley faces for other peoole and your like ok cool I get it. It sucks though because it makes you feel super small and insignificant.

@trinia it sucks when it happens.

@aylenrose, it really does but I try to get passed that and realize I have friends & family that love to be around me and talk to me. Not everybody gets along with everybody that’s just it🤷🏻‍♀️

@3babyboyz so very true I have family that is there for me but I dont have any friends anymore. Once I got pregnsnt with my son they all disappeared and now that I'm trying to make new ones its like I got the plague or something. Everyone just ignores me.

@aylenrose, i used to feel a lot worse about it. Didn’t have no friends. Just like 1 and my mom and my fiancé that I just talked to. I would be miserable it would get the best of me. Until I had enough and I said how am I going to let people that I’m not important too take away my happiness. I put a stop to it. And it still happens to me I reach out to people and not much response. I just accept that we’re not that compatible and there’s more people out there that I’ll meet and would love to talk to me just dont give up to tell u the truth my mom is my best friend

@3babyboyz that's me right now I get really sad seeing all my old friends still hanging out and not even thinking about me. My mom, my sister and my husband are my only friends and we moved away from my family.

@aylenrose, i feel u. I hope u find happiness soon

@aylenrose, wish had better words

@3babyboyz Thanks its ok :)

@aylenrose lol. Sorry, see i just suck at conversating lol. I read this yesterday and forgot to reply. But idk, maybe it's not intentional. I would try not to get to offended.