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Alanis Ferber
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I hate feeling like I can’t lose my weight after the baby I know it takes time and it was totally worth it cause I now…

I hate feeling like I can’t lose my weight after the baby I know it takes time and it was totally worth it cause I now have what I ever wanted but I’ve tried everything and I haven’t seen any changes it’s so disappointing. I’m sorry about my self rant. I know I can’t lose the weight as I’m breastfeeding but still sucks. I see everyone else make amazing goals and losing all the winter weight and here I am still packed on with weight. I know I shouldn’t be complaining and be happy with myself but it can be a little hard.

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agerbs92

Alanis Ferber

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@coltonsmommy17, is it safe to take while breastfeeding?

agerbs92

Alanis Ferber

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@coltonsmommy17, I will thanks! 👍🏼

coltonsmommy17

Erin

look up keto, i know dieting sounds ridiculous and i use go say id never do it but iv lost 40 lbs by not eating a few different foods

jasmine.oakley

Jasmine Oakley

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@agerbs92, I know what you mean. It’s a challenge everyday for me. Having a baby is such a huge change physically and mentally. I have to look in the mirror and remind myself not to think bad things about my body, and like you, to remind myself to be patient. We’ll get there someday. I hope you feel better soon! 😘

tittysprinkles

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I know the feeling but bfing does help you lose weight in the end with my oldest once she was done breastfeeding all the weight just went away and its starting to happen with this one already. Good luck and remember beauty and sexy is more than how you look its who you are!

agerbs92

Alanis Ferber

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@jasmine.oakley, trying my best to accept. I just want to be at a point where I’m happy and comfortable but til then I know it to take time it’s just patience hasn’t always been my strength but that’s also another thing I’m working on as well. Thanks for the comment needed to hear that. 😊

jasmine.oakley

Jasmine Oakley

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I know how you feel! People tell me “It took 9mths for your body to gain weight while you’re preggers, and it will take at least 9mths to lose it”. There’s a lot of pressure from the outside to snap back to pre-baby weight, but it’s also about how you feel about your appearance too so it kind of sucks either way.. I don’t like being bigger- but I’m trying to be thankful for what my body accomplished instead of focusing on how much extra I’m still carrying around. And since we aren’t supposed to diet to focus on losing weight, I just try to be active by taking walks outside when I’m not too lazy. I’m trying to accept how different My body is, stretch marks and all, and accept that my body won’t ever really be exactly the same as it was pre-baby. I figure there’s no point, because we can’t change back, but we did something so amazing, and we will eventually get back to a place where we feel comfortable enough. Don’t worry! You’re allowed to feel this way, but go easy on yourself. At least that’s what people tell me, so I’m passing it on 🙂 You’re amazing and beautiful!

Ok so not using actual numbers.. But everyone knows I'm over weight since having my girls. It's no secret. BUT i was…

Ok so not using actual numbers.. But everyone knows I'm over weight since having my girls. It's no secret. BUT i was talking with my hubby last night and idk how we got to this but he said something like (not using actual numbers) no one should weigh 800lbs, they should take care of themselves. And i said so what if someone weighs 800lbs? He said no one should weigh that, they should be healthier. I said well i almost weigh 800! I'm in the 790s. And I'm healthy. I may be overweight but i don't have any diseases, no high cholesterol, no high blood pressure, i don't have a bad heart, lungs, or anything else. So I'm healthy I'm just over weight. So then we argued about him having an issue with my weight.. Am i wrong in this? Because it really hurt my feelings.. I've tried sooo many different things to lose weight but having hypothyroidism makes you gain/hard to lose. And my medications for depression and anxiety cause you to gain also.. So it's very hard to lose weight.. But i didn't even know he had an issue with my weight until last night..