Curious, after postpartum and bonding time with your little one, when did you go back to the workforce? If you decided not to, what made you stay home? 😊😊😊
What were some challenges and benefits did your significant agree to or not?
@tyrellp that is something ideal!! I'll look into it!! Thank you!!
I went back when he was 7 months .. it’s hard being away from your baby if ur working full time ... u miss out on something’s .. my sons dad is a VP so I didn’t have to go back I jus enjoy having my own money and buying what I want .. with this baby on the way I wouldn’t mind being a SAHM it will just be an adjustment
I was thinking that! I hear so many different perspectives about going back to work versus staying home.
Some say stay at home as long as I can because that time will never be recovered while they are growing. Plus, sending baby to daycare so young is not ideal because the providers don't treat them properly and it is cheaper.
Others say, there will be reduce in separation anxiety and not such a long gap in unemployment.
I am trying to start to get a feel in what I want to do.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...

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@jellybeans_mumm talk about blessed! 🙄🙄🙄 yes, it is hard to choose. I see how I feel once baby gets here. I know right now, I feel one way but it may change after I spend time with him after he arrives 😍😍😍😍