About to fucking vent. Last night was rough my daughter barley slept so that means I barley slept. But my boyfriend…
About to fucking vent. Last night was rough my daughter barley slept so that means I barley slept. But my boyfriend somehow sleeps the night away after spending all of yesterday running up and down the city doing god knows what then sitting in front of the tv playing videos games. This morning I wake up around 9. Feed my daughter put her to sleep. I leave her in the bedroom with my boyfriend. Do my morning shit go downstairs have breakfast let the dog out. My mother in law tells me she bought a new bed. She wants me to wait downstairs till they arrive. Alright fine. Daughter still sleeping. Let the dog out. They drop off the bed. I decided to stay downstairs with the dog and take a nap. 1100 now my boyfriend comes downstairs and rips the blanket off of me drops a screaming child on me and walks away. Turns out he’s pissed I left a crying baby with him while he’s sleeping. After we yell at each other for a good 5 minutes he asked me to change her diaper so he can eat. 😑😑😑
Rebecka ·
Ugh, what good is he as a father? Doesn't he think about you doing everything? Do you talk to him about sharing responsibilities?
Mikayla Nichol ·
@neko86, I talk to him all the time. He is such a hard sleeper that if he wakes up wrong he will NOT be in a good mood. He will be a Asshole and not give a damn. I think most men feel like because we are there mothers we are supposed to be caring for them more which pisses me off cuz I’m the one who carried her for 9 months! The least you can do is share the responsibility.
Tania·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@mikaylanichol101 he reminds me of my husband loool he says he needs to sleep well otherwise he will be in a bad mood...what about us as mothers???
Lisa Chambers-Lindsay·
Мама сына (2 года)
Sounds pretty familiar hun 😪
Rebecka ·
@mikaylanichol101 I hope he will learn one day how tiring it can be!
Mikayla Nichol ·
@tania.elbaba, we both need to sleep it’s not fair we get less sleep then them.
I was already losing sleep while I was pregnant.
Lisa Chambers-Lindsay·
Мама сына (2 года)
So how’s the rest of your day going now?? I just really understand what your going through and it sucks I know. So here if u wanna chat or vent or both
Mikayla Nichol ·
@lisach_2000, thank you ! The rest of the day was fine. He usually isn’t here during the week. Except he had some things he had to do this week. He left shortly after. Won’t be back till the weekend
Lisa Chambers-Lindsay·
Мама сына (2 года)
@mikaylanichol101, well that’s good then I guess. Doesn’t his mom c how he’s treating u? Does she not say anything to him?
Mikayla Nichol ·
@lisach_2000, honestly I think I’ve heard her say something once or twice. But most of the time she tries to stay out of it.
Lisa Chambers-Lindsay·
Мама сына (2 года)
@mikaylanichol101, well I suppose I get where she’s coming from. My mother in law sides with my husband all the time. He could kick my butt and she would have a reasonable explanation for it. Makes me sick.
Mikayla Nichol ·
@lisach_2000, oh shit! That’s horrible. One time he was being very horrible and she walked by and saw him. She went downstairs and called him. You then black mother they call and they always come running. He immediately stopped went downstairs and I could hear her cussing him out. She was not happy
Lisa Chambers-Lindsay·
Мама сына (2 года)
@mikaylanichol101, well at least she’s not just on his side. That’s good. All my in laws think their shit don’t stink. Ugh 😑
Mikayla Nichol ·
@lisach_2000, I guess I can at least be thankful about one thing. Having nice in laws. She likes me so it’s kinda a plus.
Lisa Chambers-Lindsay·
Мама сына (2 года)
@mikaylanichol101, mine use to like me. Then I kicked my hubby out back in April and he was gone about a mth. The whole time he was out parting and not seeing his son. So I was talking to his mom one time and told her he was a dead beat dad. Now we just tolerate each other lol. She tries to make me jealous by hanging out with my brother in laws gf all the time..... I’m like cool for u, I can’t stand her lol 😂
Mikayla Nichol ·
@lisach_2000, maybe she’s upset about how her son was acting. She couldn’t control him and he was acting like a deadbeat. Maybe she was embarrassed or disappointed
Lisa Chambers-Lindsay·
Мама сына (2 года)
@mikaylanichol101, no I can honestly say she’s just the type that thinks her family is perfect. And when someone says otherwise well watch out lol I can’t wait to be out of this family
Celeste S·
Мама дочки (1 год)
I have the same problem, if my bf wakes up in a bad mood he stays in a bad mood
véronique ·
Мама дочки-младенца
@tania.elbaba, yeahhhhhhhhhhh lol