I am cringing. This girl I went to school with posted a picture of her baby who just turned ONE forward facing AND with a puffy ass coat on in the car seat 😑 I can’t deal. Like they make blankets for a reason
I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase? I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Things I never thought I'd say... Until I became a mom:
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
babymay2016·
Sounds exactly like my friend who when told this was not okay would go on and on about how fine it is. Even though it's literally against the law and I'm not trying to upset her, I am only thinking of her CHILDS SAFETY. Same friend who now takes her daughter to daycare, lying to the state about having a job, because she "can't stand to spend more than one hour with her daughter alone"..... it's safe to say I am not friends with this person anymore.
t 👑·
This girl on my snap had her 7 MONTH OLD forward facing ... I was like wtf
babymay2016·
@tiffanyf omggggg
babymay2016·
@tiffanyf What is wrong with people I swear
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@babymay2016, oh god that’s awful. Some fuckin people 😑 @tiffanyf, WHAT!!!! That’s insane. Like most 7m babies are still in carriers unless they’re big, but still rear facing!
Why would anyone want to put their kid in harms way like what is the big deal, these aren’t difficult concepts
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@babymay2016, that’s crazy!!! I spend anywhere between 8-16 hours, 5 days of the week completely alone with my baby and yeah it’s hard, but I would NEVER lie to a day care because I wanted time away. That’s awful. I haven’t gone back to work yet because I’m afraid to leave him for a full shift, even with family that I trust!
babymay2016·
@tiffanyf @noragra You should both mention to these people like I did my ex "friend", that it isn't only the law but it's for the safety of your children. Some people find this to be an inconvience and will give all these reasons of why they forward face their children, usually the reason being "Oh? well MY child is very tall and there is no room" It is actually proven to be safer for your kid to have their knees touching their damn forehead and for them to break their legs in a collision, than for someone under 2 by law (but under 5 yrs old) to break their neck by forward facing. The neck and spine and all that aren't developed in children until 4 or 5 years old. My son is VERY tall for his age and we will be rear facing for years to come. There is nothing more important than our children's safety and definitely to our "inconvience".... it is also the law. And smh I don't even know what to saaaaay about the 7 month old. That is soooo baaaad. And scary
t 👑·
@babymay2016, I said something before about the chest clip where it belongs and she go offended and was a Bitch about it .. so 🤷🏼♀️
babymay2016·
And I know right I spend every second that I can with my son. I do have him in daycare but only because I do work and I pick him up as soon as I can. It just baffles me she could do that and say those things. She would take her every single day and not look for a job or do anything. She was home the entire day alone but couldn't stand to be with her daughter. I tried to help her get a job but her boyfriend makes $27/hr, is awful to her but will let her stay home. And she would take her daughter to daycare every day and pick her up when it closes.
babymay2016·
@tiffanyf Yep, they always are aren't they. Ugh that's why I said it's safe to say I'm not friends with my friend anymore. She blocked me on everything actually lolol but I did a lot for her and I wasn't trying to be mean but personally if I was going something harmful to my baby and not noticing PLEASE tell me. How could anybody be offended about a plain fact and the safety of their own.