Here is why men are stupid. I was telling my sons father that My sons leg muscles aren't where they should be at. they…

You seem to be doing everything that you can do not only for your son but for his father. You are still letting him know about your concerns. The fact that he's so nonchalant about his son's development is his problem and there's nothing you can do or say to get him on board to be supportive an understanding. All you can do is do for your son what you think is right and then like you said make copies of all the paperwork let his father know give him copies of the paperwork and doctors notes and Etc.

@mommiesaremagical14, thank you! I really do try my best and god knows I try my best with him to be informative and let him know what's going on not like he does with me. but I am with him for my sons benefit. And I'll always do everything and anything for my child always have always will. Not going to sit and let time pass when I could be doing something to help him and not prolong the process when they see an issue and so do I.

Is you son talking already?

@anbelle, he saids some words. He trys to mimic what we say but a lot of it is babble still.

@missjess all you can do is try.

Oh..That's why. You see, when a baby talks first before, he more likely walk later and same if he'd walk first. My son started walking right before he turned 1 and he hasn't talk yet. All he does is simply mumble. Trust me. I've been baby sitting since I was 7 and I've seen a lot that.😊

@anbelle, oh I never heard that.

Yeah. Not most people do. But don't worry..if he decide to start walking now, it won't be long before he start mumbling some words. He's right there already.

And a bouncer is also a good leg exercise..if you're really concern. And a doc's check ups too.😊

@anbelle, he has a bouncer he goes in regularly and he goes to the doctors whenever a he's suppose too

Then you don't have to worry anything..unless his doctor say something you should be concerned of. He's doing fine and for a first time mom, you're showing concerns for your son..I'd say you're doing great. 👍😊

@anbelle, she's the one that set up early intervention.

Oh..idk but I really believe it's just your son not showing interest n walking yet. I've seen kids n my baby sitting days didn't walk til almost 1 and half year and some didn't talk til 2 years or 3. I'm a doctor just sharing you my knowledge. 😄

@anbelle, they think he is just lacking confidence but they did say he has weaker legs muscles and his core too.

Ah..I think it's the lazy muscles that makes them weak. a lil massage before bed will do. they have to be relaxed at night for them to build up some strength the next day. Try massaging his legs and feet especially his knee every night before bed. Try it for the whole week.

Your son really had a chunky legs by the way. That's why you need to massage them. There are more baby fat n it that muscles.

@anbelle, I always apply lotion and give him a full little body massage before bed. I'd think his leg muscles would be strong from his bouncer lol I know they'll really work him in physical therapy though and give me tools to work with him too so hopefully he'll be up and running around in no time. I feel like he's almost there but just needs a little boost to give him that extra push to walk by himself that we can't give him.

Oh therapy? Well it's even better. They're gonna do the same thing I told you except they're gonna have more exercise for him besides of massage.