Does everyone get along with their SIL & MIL? See I used to be super close to both of mine until I found out that they…
Does everyone get along with their SIL & MIL? See I used to be super close to both of mine until I found out that they were talking about me behind my back now I normally don’t hold grudges but this one actually hurt cause I’ve been nothing but nice and 1. My husband wouldn’t let me say anything or even bring it up so I can set the record straight and 2. He never defended me or brought it up to them so therefor until I get it fixed I’m done with them I can’t be 2 face and just act like everything is A okay so I left their asses back in 2017 👏🏻🤷🏻♀️ #justventingalittle
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@nessairieray I relate too much to this story.
𝒩𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒶 𝒫𝑜𝓁𝒾𝓉𝑜·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@noturprops, seriously I don’t get the deal with them they are not my family only by marriage
Michelle·
I never met my SO’s Mom since she died before I met him. I get along wth his sister though.
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I don’t blame you, they can’t go on like that! I get on with mil but the sil I hate her n will never speak to her again and either is dale with his own sister she done unforgivable things so defo not xx
𝒩𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒶 𝒫𝑜𝓁𝒾𝓉𝑜·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@shellbell0391, I did too for a looong time. But now this hell no and I’m willing to put it behind me when they apologize
𝒩𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒶 𝒫𝑜𝓁𝒾𝓉𝑜·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@mammyoftwo, exactly!!! Thank you! My husband says I’m making a big deal I’m like wow idc I’m the wife shit lol nobody is going to talk about me behind my back. I thought they would be nicer to me because it’s my decision if they get to see my son or not
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@nessairieray, oh god them men always say we over reacting when in reality it’s them that is!, always here for a chat or vent , you go girl 💋
Victoria·
Мама дочки (1 год)
I don't blame u. That's sounds like something I do now I can't with folks until we get some apologies and understanding in order
Oooh! ChicanaCrazy 🤷🏽♀️·
Nope. Not at all.
Jess🌹♥️·
omg same here. I was like 🤞 with them and then I heard some shit from my SO, so the next time I went I heard them snickering and his MIL gave me the dirtiest look and I'm like "Is there something gross on my face for you to be looking at me like that? is there a problem?" and they lied straight. to. my. face. "no girl I wasn't making any face" lol k. 🙃
𝒩𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒶 𝒫𝑜𝓁𝒾𝓉𝑜·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@jaxons.mom09, omg 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 I wish I could’ve said something but my husband begged me not to he’s like it’s not a big deal you don’t need to start anything I’m like well they should’ve kept their mouth shut now they don’t even know I’m pregnant and we’re moving to another state in March
M H K S·
Nope. My story is some what simular to yours. Expect my husband stood up for me. But i left their asses back on 2016. Well, my Mil tries to be nice when she is around me which is rare, but I just brush it off and stick my nose in the air.
Jess🌹♥️·
@nessairieray yep, my SO begged me not to and I was like sorry bud. ain't no stopping me now. for that he should've just not told me! and sucks to suck for them, you don't need any stress from their pettiness anyway, they'll get the memo eventually. 🙂
t 👑·
I do, my sil is little less than 2 yrs younger than me .. & my mil just can be annoying but she has a big heart!
𝒩𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒶 𝒫𝑜𝓁𝒾𝓉𝑜·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@tattooedmama_,oh really? Girl we fought about this a lot I kept asking him how come he won’t say anything his response was “I don’t want to start shit” I’m like fuck that they started it
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What does sil & mil mean?
𝒩𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒶 𝒫𝑜𝓁𝒾𝓉𝑜·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@poohpooh45, sister n law and mother n law
𝒩𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒶 𝒫𝑜𝓁𝒾𝓉𝑜·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@tattooedmama_, omg noooo frickin way!! Girl the worst part is I had to find out from my brother n laws girlfriend they were talking shit about me to her I’m like wtf after all the nice shit I did for them and ooooooo every day was a fight and with me and my husband I told him well since he didn’t want to fix this and I can’t say anything then they can’t see any of my shit or our son so I blocked them all
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Oh yeah I’m the same way but I cut my mans family off completely they are corny and fake! 💯💯 and if my man didn’t take up for me or didn’t let me confront them I would b so pissed!!
Tanz·
Мама сына (1 год)
@nessairieray yeah girl stick to your guns.. Your husband may be defending family but you deserve that equality for him to defend you. Letting his family know you are a true person that has feelings and emotions to respect you instead of talking behind your back just accept you instead of putting expectations or their opinions on your life.
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Mines the same way, Hun, you aren't alone but I know for a fact that for my mil is that I'm with her favorite son and she don't like it. And for the sil, well she's use to getting all the attention but not anymore lol. I don't let it get to me though at the end well probably be like that soon lmao jk 😅
c. g·
I'm lucky I always come before his side of family. However he does forgive and me well I'm just going with the flow . Can't hold grudges I guess . His mom is more just annoying and his sibling hate me now but idc 😒😒😒😒. I've been too nice from the beginning . Now I know that I can never count on his family for nothing .
Amber J. Stacy·
Мама троих детей
I have a restraining order against my mil and bil. Mil physically attacked me while pregnant and bil threatened to kill our whole family because my husband chose me and at the time our unborn daughter over him And his mother
𝒩𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒶 𝒫𝑜𝓁𝒾𝓉𝑜·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@2016stacys, omg!!!! That’s scary! I would move to a different state if that was me
💕Vivian Aide Gonzalez 💕·
I hate my husbands family and they don’t even live here lol
I was the same like cool with them at the beginning but that’s all goneeee!!!
I deleted their numbers and I’m definitely way better with 0 communication with them !!!
I feel relief 😎 lol
Amber J. Stacy·
Мама троих детей
@nessairieray we plan to in March
𝒩𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒶 𝒫𝑜𝓁𝒾𝓉𝑜·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@2016stacys, oh yay me too I’m moving in March my husband is the army ☺️
Amber J. Stacy·
Мама троих детей
@nessairieray We will be moving closer to my family in Colorado to get away from all the crazies here