I NEED TO VENT! I NEED TO VENT! OOOO I NEED TO FUCKING VENT!! ‼
I NEED TO VENT! I NEED TO VENT! OOOO I NEED TO FUCKING VENT!! ‼️
My mom is really pissing me off. She treats me like my daughter is hers and I’m just a surrogate or something. She thinks she’s entitled to absolutely everything, acts like I have to choose a name she likes, everything has to be what she wants, invading my privacy, trying to force me to do stuff and force my doctors to do exams that ARE NOT NECESSARY! like hello, IM THE FUCKING PATIENT, WHY ARE YOU DOING WHAT SHE IS TELLING YOU TO DO. I go to my appointments and the doctor says everything is fine! Healthy mom and healthy baby, we leave and she tells absolutely everyone that I’m “high risk” “the baby can come at any minute now and be premature” “I’m in for a very complicated and risky labor and that when I go into labor I have not even 5 minutes to get to the hospital before things go bad” and that I’ll “need infusions and will have to be monitored or else I’ll slip into a coma” due to some fucking made up problem and condition that she made up herself!! All because my doctor said my cervix is a little far back! She said that it’s normal and doesn’t affect anything and should come forward as time passes and as I start to dilate. So what the fuck is wrong with her? THE DOCTOR ALWAYS ENSURES THINGS ARE GOING GREAT AND ARE OKAY! So why sit there and make things up like that? It’s like she wants so bad for something to actually go wrong. Then she doesn’t understand why I don’t want her ass in the room when I give birth! Then I’m such a terrible person for that, trying to “keep her out of her granddaughters life” “taking her moments as a grandmother away from her” and a bunch of bullshit pulled straight out of her ass just because I don’t want to deal with her during my delivery or have her lying to people saying things that aren’t true just so she can feel satisfaction from getting attention and people all worried for no reason. I’m so fucking sick of her!
𝒩𝑒𝓈𝓈𝒶 𝒫𝑜𝓁𝒾𝓉𝑜·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Holy crap that’s a lot for you to take in your mom shouldn’t be making you feel overwhelmed. And my cervix is far back too that’s totally normal I’m sorry your going thru this
Malaina Heka·
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She sounds a bit psychotic... like she wants something bad to happen to you so she can take your baby... I’m so sorry you’re going through this... is there any way you can move out of her house and also not allow her to go to your appointments... if you don’t want her there she doesn’t have to be, I mean unless you’re still a minor..🙊🙃
Unavailable ·
Oddly enough similar problems with my mother and I had to cut her off completely because the relationship prior to my pregnancy was a rocky one. Now I feel like my mother in law is trying to pick up where she left off trying to dictate everything but you just have to constantly remind the world that this is your child and what you say where you child is concerned is your business. Opinions are like assholes everyone has one and it’s meant to be kept to self.
muvaa.of.3 🌸·
Мама двоих (6 лет, 11 лет), ждёт третьего
Wow!!! That’s beyond crazy!! You’re mom should lay off for u really have to go to the hospital from her stressing u out!!
Lulu·
This sounds very attention seeking. My cervix is far back too.. and I’ve also been told it’s even angled weird. It did not affect my first pregnancy at all. Tell her to take a chill pill. Sorry you have to deal with that.
Tera·
Мама сына (1 год)
My mom is the same way like I’m sure I had my child and not you
Brittany ·
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@malainaheka23, she’s always been an attention seeking person. It’s like she loves when something bad happens to me because she takes everything overboard and gets attention from people for it. The only reason I’m staying with her is because my fathers health is declining and she doesn’t care to help him a bit because she’s too worried about cheating on him as he works from 7-11pm every single day for her. As far as my appointments, she forces her way into absolutely everything! My doctors never listen to me and always listen to her and allow her to tell them what to do and I’m not even a minor! Like if I say I don’t want her there or want them to do what SHE is insisting they do, but they still allow and do it, can’t they get in trouble for that?
Brittany ·
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@tymirsmommy24, Exactly!!
Brittany ·
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@lulu85_18, Thank you, she has always been the attention seeking type.